SPECIAL GUEST – KATHY IRELAND On Why Moms Matter This Week!

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You may know her for her face and her body.  Her modeling career began when she was only 17.  She was featured in the annual Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition 13  consecutive years.

Hopefully you know her for her business savvy. She is the CEO of Kathy Ireland Worldwide.  Her brand includes everything from furniture t0 home goods to clothing to fitness videos.

This Friday, meet and understand Kathy Ireland as a Mom Who Matters.

 

kathymomNominated as a Mom Who Matters, by a close friend, Kathy is described as a mother of 3 who does it all, including, “school pick ups and drop offs, dance classes, guitar lessons, skateboarding, homework, school functions, church and being a Sunday school teacher“. 

This is, of course,  all on top of being a CEO, a regular volunteer for several organizations and the author of a new book, Real Solutions for Busy Moms.

We will be talking to Kathy about balancing it all and her advice for moms. She has done the research – she is a mom and she has some advice!

Do you have a question you would like us to ask Kathy?  Please share it with us.  We will do our best to cover everything you want to know. If we use your question, we will mention that YOU wanted to know!

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And then join us live on Friday for a special hour long show on Why Moms Matter on Blog Talk Radio at 12:30PDT/2:30CDT.

If you want to nominate a future Mom Who Matters, we would love to hear from you!

Running for her Life – Why Moms Matter

jefftrinaNine years ago, Trina Pockett at the doctor for a routine pregnancy check up.  She was 4 months pregnant with her second child, a daughter, Kate.

She had noticed a small lump in her neck and simply decided to ask about it.

The answer was not what she expected.  She had cancer.

At the young age of 23.  With a toddler at home.  With a baby in her belly. 

Trina had cancer.

At the time of her diagnosis, this young mother did not consider herself to be a fighter, but she claims her ‘inner fighter emerged’ as she began the process of beating the cancer.

momkateShe had 2 months of treatment while she was pregnant.  After she gave birth to Kate, she settled in for chemo and radiation.

How is it possible to be a mom, especially to very young children, while undergoing something that is so physically draining?

momboys“The kids were an absolute blessing to me because they gave me a sense of purpose. On the days when I was most tired and discouraged, the kids gave me a sense of purpose. Even though I was sick, they still needed a mom.”

Moms matter – they still give everything they have, even when they are taking on the fight of their life – literally.

Trina says the kids routine kept her going through the tough days and the kid’s hugs gave her the push she needed to make it through.

kidsThis difficult journey changed Trina as a parent, “. There are days that I watch my children and in awe that I get to be their mom. It is a true joy.  I have tried to instill into them the importance of making the most of each day. I want them to pursue their goals and dreams. ”

And now, cancer free – Trina and her husband, Jeff,  have added another little one to their family and she is now tackling a dream of her very own.  Find out what that dream is on Why Moms Matter Blog Talk Radio at 12:30PDT/2:30CDT

Trina is also being featured on Lifetime TV as part of their Clean Start Challenge 2009.

If you would like to nominate an ordinary, extraordinary Mom, we would love to hear from you!

Calling all Photographers for Why Moms Matter Project

We need your help. You know a mom who matters.  We know moms who matter.

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We want you to submit photographs you think define WHYMOMSMATTER to be used in both a promotional video for the WhyMomsMatter Project as well as the accompanying E-Book highlighting dozens of nominations of the most ordinary, extraordinary moms out there. 

This EBook will be given away for free – because we think moms deserve all the credit in the world.

This is not a cutest baby contest:)  And it is not a forum for selling a new product.  We would LOVE to see your photographic interpretation of Moms and Why They Matter.  Be Creative – shoot from your hip – shoot from your heart.  Pictures can include moms or grandmothers, toddlers or teens, even animals.  You can showcase inanimate objects.  The only requirement – show us Why Moms Matter.

 Here is the link to submit your photos.

extraordinarymommyThe crews from MomFaves.com and ExtraordinaryMommy.com will be deciding on the winning photographs.  Good luck and thank you for helping us to prove Moms Matter.

As always, join us for the Why Moms Matter BlogTalkRadio Show every Friday at 12:30PST/2:30CST.  We are thrilled to be highlighting amazing moms and everything they do for their families.

Don’t forget to nominate an extraordinary mom you know!

Beating the Odds – Why Moms Matter

You might be the most calm, centered, passive person in the world, but find out your child is being attacked and your Mama Bear instincts kick in.  You stand up tall, you don your SuperMom cape and you MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.

Just ask Sandie Haskins  – this week’s WhyMomsMatter highlighted mom.

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Three years ago next month, Sandie Haskins and her family were given devastating-knock-the-wind-out-of-you-news.  Sandie’s youngest son, Kyler, was diagnosed with brain cancer.  Just 5 years old at the time, the doctors delivered a grim prognosis.  While this cancer typically allows for a 70-80% survival rate, Kyler’s disease was a ‘fast-growing aggressive type’ that might not even respond to treatment.  He was given a 10-40% chance of beating the cancer.

Sandie asked the doctors how many kids they had treated with Kyler’s form of the disease who had survived.

None.

kylerhaskins2And so began Sandie’s journey to save her child through prayer, nutrition and supplements. (In addition to traditional treatment of chemo and radiation.)

Sandie and her family received emails, notes and verses that helped to guide them through the challenges of this time.

Listen to WhyMomsMatter on Blog Talk Radio, Friday at 12:30Pst/2:30CST to learn how Sandie helped to beat the odds and save her son’s life.

Kyler is now 8 years old, and as of his most recent MRI on March 3rd, he is cancer free. This leaves him to be a child, to be a little brother to 10 year old, Kendrick and to be the son Sandie and her husband simply refused to lose.

It is easy to recognize a little of ourselves in Sandie….even if you haven’t dealt with the type of circumstances she faced. In addition to her Mommy duties – Sandie has her own business – My Mosiac Memories - photo books that allow you to capture the most special moments.  The enjoyment she received from her business rapidly became a passion after  Kyler was diagnosed and she recognized how important it would be to have photos of Kyler if they couldn’t tackle his disease the way they hoped.

Moms Matter because they will do anything they can to protect their children.

If you know a MomWhoMatters – nominate her!  That way, we can know and love her too!

And don’t forget to listen to the Show!

A great big Thank You!

I think you know I am excited-thrilled-over-the-moon about the Why Moms Matter Project and the Blog Talk Radio Show I am co-hosting (every Friday 2:30CST) with 2 of my favorite people – Josh and Rebecca from MomFaves.

And you might even know we are doing a Why Moms Matter Blog Tour.

What you might not know is that I love (and by love I mean come-here-so-I-can-give-you-a-great-big-squishy-hug) the wonderful and amazing bloggers who have joined the Tour and highlighted what we are doing.  By bringing attention to Why Moms Matter – each and every one of you is honoring the Moms you know, and even those you don’t. 

Being a Mom is easily one of the most fantastic and challenging jobs in the world – and we want everyone to know that Moms Matter and WHY!

So, here is my great big thank you to the Moms who have played along on our Blog Tour so far:

Mishelle at SecretAgentMama,  Sarah at OhanaMama, Deanna at DomesticChicky, Jennifer at TheDirtyShirtBlog, Christine at FromDatesToDiapers, Kim at CraftyMamaof4, Brandy at WritingsofaWAHM, Jen at TheClassyCloset , Carol at SheLives and to Bonggmom!

(If, by some terrible trick of fate I have not seen your Blog Tour post, please send me the link – I want to express my gratitude!)

If you aren’t already keeping up with these ladies – you should!

There are more bloggers honing their Blog Tour skills as we speak and I can’t wait to share them with you!

If would like to join the Blog Tour – just shoot me an email at danielle@extraordinarymommy.com and I’ll be happy to send you the details. The Tour will still be running all next week.

And, of course, to nominate a Mom doing ordinary, extraordinary things – hop on over to WhyMomsMatter.

You won’t want to miss the Mom we are highlighting tomorrow. She is a source of inspiration to many, but especially to adoptive moms and women working through fertility treatments.

Join us tomorrow (Friday) at 12:30PST/2:30CST on WhyMomsMatter on Blog Talk Radio.

Mom with a Heart – Why Moms Matter

Moms Matter.  You know I feel strongly about this.

Picture this:

You have a baby. Her name is Zoe.  One evening, when she is a mere 6 weeks old, you notice she is listless.  She won’t eat.  You know something is wrong.  You’re the mommy.

You rush Zoe to the hospital.  The hospital takes her to a specialty Children’s hospital by ambulance.  She nearly dies on the way there.  You are told she has a virus. That virus has attacked her heart.  The doctors work miracles.  Zoe is sent home with the hope that her heart will outgrow the damage. 

Just more than 6 years later, you learn otherwise.  Zoe needs a heart transplant. 

In December, Zoe got her new heart.

This is Chrissy’s story.  She is a Mom Who Matters.

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We received a beautiful letter from Chrissy’s sister, Nichole, nominating her for the WhyMomsMatter Project:

“While Chrissy is younger than me, she is so much stronger than I could ever be.  She is brave and fearless, she doesn’t question the unknown or back down from it.  She faces it head on with a smile and grace, even when she feels like breaking down.”

Though Zoe has a new heart, she is not out of the woods.  She went home in January, but is currently back in the hospital fighting another virus. 

chrissywmm2Nichole told me a story that illustrates the kind of mother Chrissy is: On Halloween, before her transplant, Zoe became too weak to walk door to door, and yet, like most children she didn’t want the magic of the night to end.  She wanted to continue trick-or-treating.  Rather than taking her home, Chrissy pulled her 6 year old daughter on to her back and carried her from one home to the next.

Chrissy is the kind  of mother who will carry the weight of  her whole family when necessary. 

In addition to Zoe, Chrissy has a just-turned 11 year old son, Gabriel.  (Happy Belated Birthday, Gabriel) She has become an advocate for transplant children and has forged a network with other parents.  You can learn more about Zoe’s journey at www.ZoesHeart.com.

“I sometimes have a hard time looking at my sister without crying, knowing the fear that’s been in her heart and the stress that she’s fought through.  In so many ways, she is my hero and my best friend, even when she’s arguing with me.  I want the world to know how she matters to me, to her children and to our family.  Even when she feels the darkest, she manages to light a room and those around her.”

Why Moms Matter  and ExtraordinaryMommy are thrilled to be highlighting Chrissy, her love of her family and everything she does that Matters.

You can hear from both Chrissy and Nichole on the WhyMomsMatter Blog Talk Radio Show today, Friday, March 6th at 12:30PST/2:30CST

The WhyMomsMatter Project is so near and dear to me and to Josh and Rebecca from Momfaves., please join us in recognizing ‘ordinary moms with extraordinary stories’.

If you would like to nominate a Mom for a future WhyMomsMatter show, visit the website.

Mental Hip Check

I’ll admit it.  Sometimes I feel very selfish.  I feel guilty if I would rather work, or read a book, or, well, do ANYTHING other than play a 17th game of CandyLand.

Sometimes I feel like a walking Calgon commercial – I would love someone to just ‘take me away’.  But right as I am wishing that, I get a mental hip check.

sickminiMy mental hip checks are ALWAYS a reminder to focus on what truly matters.  To me, being a Mommy absolutely matters. And when you see this sitting on your couch, and she says, “Mommy, will you snuggle with me?”  You know that this very moment - it matters.  Work can wait.  Deadlines can wait.  Your little girl?  No waiting.

My sweet girl came down with ‘a virus’ out of the blue yesterday.  It started with a relatively low fever and some vomiting in the evening.  However, this morning, her temperature ballooned to 103 and barely came down for the bulk of the day.  Holding her hand was like clutching a heated oven mitt.  Cuddling with her was like clinging to a heating pad.  She was absolutely radiating heat.

Since we couldn’t get the fever down, our doctor wanted us to head to the hospital.  Naturally, the moment we arrive, the fever starts to come down on its own – but the reassurance that she is not dehydrated (despite the incoherent episodes earlier in the day), does not have a bladder infection, and is not suffering from some terrible unnamed illness were worth the trip.

Being with her when she needed me – even for something as small as a fever – it matters to me. And it matters to her.  Her memory of today will always include me cuddling her – not her feeling lonely and scared.  That is important to me.

Not to be left out, the little guy was desperate to get in on the action at the hospital.  God love the paramedics for taking special care of him.

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Have you ever seen a kid so happy to be at the hospital?  Delaney wasn’t feeling up to the ride – yes, this kind gentleman you see pictured, did, in fact, take Coop on a RIDE around the nurse’s station. 

 

I am grateful to everyone at this wonderful hospital for making this trip so painless.

I am grateful for the hip check.  Sometimes we need a reminder of what matters most!