I Will Make Sleep A Priority: My Body Tells Me So….

About 5 years ago I was startled awake at 5am.  It wasn’t a sound that had pulled me from sleep, but rather something rattling around in my brain, urging me from the comfort of my bed.  It had been a late night.  I definitely didn’t want to move, but I was compelled.  By what, I wasn’t certain.

Until I glanced at my cell phone.

A missed call from my mom.  5am in St. Louis is 3am in San Diego: never a good time to be receiving a call from anyone, let alone family.  My hands shook as I hurried to call her back.  She was breathless and shaky.

And in the back of an ambulance.

My father, one of the strongest men I knew, had suffered a Grand Mal seizure in his sleep and was being rushed to the hospital.  She was sitting with him then and would call me when she knew more.

My husband was awake and sitting up in bed as I hung up.  I didn’t realize it, but I had audibly gasped as my mom explained what happened.  She had thought my dad was having a bad dream, but turned on the light when she couldn’t rouse him and the shaking wouldn’t stop.

All of the initial tests showed nothing.  This was both wonderful and baffling. The hospital released dad.

I was in San Diego within a few hours of his arriving home.  He was groggy, but alert.  And, as is typical for the man I know, determined to find out what had happened, understand every detail, and oh-so-very-frustrated that he couldn’t remember every moment.

But he was exhausted.

It was a few weeks before the doctors said, ‘ah-ha!’

He had epilepsy. 

The doctors tied the epilepsy’s onset to a lifetime buildup of loss of sleep.

Fast forward to present day, dad is perfectly fine.  He definitely gets more sleep and is an advocate (read: pusher) for a good 8-9 hours a night for me.

You see, we have learned that epilepsy can be hereditary.  It is not uncommon for it to set in late in life.  And I have spent the past 5+ years building a business.  And while I’ve been doing that, I’ve been subsisting on 4-5 hours of sleep a night. (sometimes 3)  My overarching company name is 330Media – the double entendre: 3:30 is both the time the kids get out of school and the time I have gone to bed for the better part of the last 5 years.

But, I know that has to change.  My body is telling me so.  My husband is telling me so.  My father is telling me so.

And so is my mind.

It is never too late to make a change, a shift….to create a new resolution.

And it is just that thinking that is the motivation behind P&G everyday resolutions- urging you and me to think about our ‘lives in progress’ and the little things we can do everyday that would make a BIG difference in our worlds.

Clearly sleep falls into the BIG category for me.

My P&G Everyday Resolution for today is: Get More Sleep. 

I vow to be in bed by 11pm every night (barring those special occasions!)

To reward consumers for taking these steps, P&G everyday will be giving away $100,000 in daily prizes during the month of June.

  • For each person who submits an everyday resolution to the P&G everyday Facebook Page, they will be automatically entered for a chance to win:
    • From June 1 – June 25:  Three $1,000 VISA prepaid debit cards a day
    • From June 26 – June 30:  Five $1,000 VISA prepaid debit cards a day

When you share your resolution, you can also include a picture (optional), and the great news?  You can come back daily to the P&G everyday Facebook page for additional opportunities to enter and win (simply re-enter your contact information).  While you’re here, be sure to check out the gallery of everyday pledges other people are making to help improve their everyday!

I will be sharing an everyday resolution on my Twitter and Facebook pages each day during the month of June and I would love for you to join me.

I would love to know what you decide to do (and if you stick to it). I will be sure to let you know how I’m doing with my extra sleep.

Disclosure: I am working as a spokesperson for P&G’s everyday resolution campaign.  Why? Because I use P&G products on a daily basis and it makes me happy to share this new project with you.  As always, all opinions and stories are mine alone.

 

25 Things I Believe for 2012….

I believe in bear hugs and belly laughs.

I believe one look into my children’s eyes will always make the world seem brighter.

I believe in ‘yes days’.

I believe in ear-to-ear smiles, giggles that make my cheeks hurt, and friends I can’t live without.

I believe writing is good for my soul.

I believe good posture, drinking water and exercise will make me look younger. But I have to do them: stand up straight, drink the water and get moving.

I believe I should have less and give more.

I believe I deserve time to read for pleasure.

I believe in high heels, red dresses and jeans that make me feel fabulous.

I believe in makeup and glitter, sunsets and chocolate, wine and all things that sparkle.

I believe the sight and sound of the ocean can cure anything that ails me.

I believe the most brilliant color in the world is the shade of raspberry you see when you close your eyes and turn your face to the sun.

I believe I should say ‘outstanding’ when someone says, ‘how are you?’.  They can’t help but smile in response.

I believe in eye contact and strong handshakes.  

I believe in listening.

I believe if I want to be happy, I should.  Be happy.

I believe it is easy to live in fear: afraid of the ‘what ifs’.  But I believe I am stronger than the ‘what ifs’.

I believe I have to ask for what I want.  If I don’t, the answer will always be no.

I believe teaching my children to give of themselves is one of my primary responsibilities as a mom.

I believe that dreaming big is a beautiful and mandatory thing.

I believe I should know my worth.

I believe class and grace are two of the most beautiful words in the English language.

I believe I should never stop wondering what I want to be when I grow up.

I believe juggling a career I love and a family I adore will never be perfect, but it is possible.

I believe, at the end of the day…. at THE END OF THE DAY…. my children will be able to say I DID IT: I showed them it was possible to follow my passion and make them feel loved every moment of every day.

What do YOU BELIEVE?

 

A New Year Letter to Me

Dear Danielle~

 

Well, it is that time of year again.  You skated right past New Year’s without even thinking about resolutions, but you know D-Day is just around the corner.  You officially have less than 24 hours until YOU must address who you have become in the past year and who you would like to be in 2009.

 

OK..so, this is the letter I started to write myself in honor of my birthday. I have always chosen to do Resolutions on my birthday instead of on January 1.  Too much pressure….I can’t get past the ‘get in shape’ and ‘eat right’ portion of the program.  And I think birthdays are the perfect time to celebrate your own personal New Year.

 

So, I was all set to keep going with the letter: the good, the bad and the ugly of this past year and ready to set serious goals.  Then I had a little epiphany.  It came in the form of a wonderful friend (and wickedly talented photographer) named Gina.  As I was chatting with her tonight, she mentioned a sermon she heard in church over New Year’s – the gist of it: Your past is just that: past.  Forgive the wrongs of 2008, forget what didn’t go well and what you should have done.  Start today.  Look forward.  Plan for your future.  Set goals.

 

 

Do you love it?

 

So……Allow me to start over:

 

Dear Danielle,

You were a wonderful Mommy this year.  You loved, you hugged, you laughed, you played, you taught and celebrated and experienced joy. Let any Mommy-guilt go. You may not be a perfect wife, but damn you try…and Jeff does know you love him. (He even knows you are his biggest fan)

You even get props for loving your friends and family.  As for all the other stuff you may have done or not done (you know the stuff you wish you could have improved?) Fugghetaboutit.  It is now officially history. And, overall, there really isn’t anything you would have changed, now is there? 

All of the people you want in your life are here for you.

So, moving forward….here is my advice: be more proactive.  You have ideas and dreams, goals and wishes.  Pursue them.  Organize all of your thoughts, write them down, choose the path you want and get walkin’. There is absolutely nothing standing in your way, except, well, you.

Take care of yourself.  You know you want to.  Be as healthy as you can.  I know you want to FEEL and look your best, right?  BE the example for Delaney and Cooper. Get on it. (That means put the bag of chocolate covered pretzels down and step.away.slowly.now.)

Most of all continue to focus on being grateful.  There are so many wonderful people in your life.  You are blessed with a fantastic husband, healthy, sassy, crazy children, amazing friends and you have managed to rid your life of unnecessary negativity.  You do work you enjoy and have many things to look forward to.

See the positive.  Live the present.  Prepare for the future.  Enjoy the Extraordinary.  Today.

Love, Me