If only she let me take a picture….

I’ll set the scene for you:

This little girl has to go to the bathroom.  She invites me in (demands my presence) when she has to poop.  I walk in. 

“Mommy, will you close the door so I can have some privacy?”  No problem.  Door closed.

“Thanks, Mommy.  Now, just let me get my magazine.  I like to read when I have to poop.”  She proceeds to pick up the magazine and holds it closely as she puts the Dora potty seat in place and pulls her pants down.

She climbs up, shorts and panties around her ankles and starts to ‘read’ her magazine.  (BTW, her magazine is Jeff’s Mizzou Alumni Mag)

It is at this point that I ask her if I can take a picture.  She politely, but firmly refused.  Can’t blame her, but (damn) it would have been a great pic.  Her childhood mind probably warned her of the doom that would follow if I was allowed to forever document the moment (and therefore potentially embarass her during her teenage years.)

Smart of her.

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Wordless Wednesday – Just Can’t get Enough

 

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SKA-DOOSH

Just in case you were wondering what is tormenting me this morning.

The phrase “Ska-Doosh”…bellowed by a toy Panda.

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It breaks my heart

My husband is gone for the next month.  Training for a new job.  He will get to come home July 3-5th, but other than that….the kids have only me.

Which isn’t so bad during the day.

But nighttime….well, that’s a different story.  For 3 1/2 hours last night, Coop called out for his daddy.

“Daddy….where are you?”, “Daddy?  You lay down with me?”, “Daddy???”

He’s only 2, so, daddy being ‘in New York’ only makes so much sense. 

I lay down with him, I held him when he asked me to….I even brought him into bed with me…but he was so restless.  He finally asked to go back to his bed because “I don yike u bed, Mommy.”  At least he finally got some sleep.

As much as this literally hurt my heart…what would I do if Jeff was deployed for a year or more?  How do those (incredibly strong) mommys manage?  And worse….God forbid….what if something ever happened to Jeff?  I don’t think I can even go there….it makes me sick to my stomach to even think about.

So…I suppose, despite the midnight heartbreak..we are lucky b/c we know he’s coming home.

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Note to Self

Children do not always behave.

They are often sassy.  Sometimes disrespectful. Occasionally very hard to be around.  Take today for example…or even yesterday.  The tantrums, the yelling…blah..blah….It helps me to focus on their sweeter sides when I’m feeling especially intolerant of this behavior (all fancy language for ‘My daughter is driving me nuts!’)  However,  to get through it, this is the face I’m going to conjure in my mind:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It is remembering these images…these sweet moments that is helping me to focus as I deal with her terrible 3′s…or almost 4′s..or whatever is causing the whining, crabby, crying mess she has been been. (And no she isn’t sick!)

Focus. On. The. Sweetness.  OK…I almost have it….Got it!

Happy Monday.

 

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Just can’t resist ‘Goodies for Mom’

From Dates to Diapers is running a fabulous contest this week just for Moms…and, of course, I couldn’t resist (which means I had to share with you too!)

She highlights some extra-neat (yep…I just used ‘neat’ in a sentence) stuff.  My Favorite is the Sport Skirt….such a fab take on workout gear….designed to make you feel saucy even while you exercise.  Gotta love it!

For prizes…she is giving away a darling “Why can’t I have a timeout?” tee for moms and a Flip and Tumble bag

I have Vaseline on my face

But that is just fine with me since it is indicative of the fight I have waged (and am winning!!!!!  Eczema sufferers read on!) against my son’s eczema since seeing his sweet, pale skin turn wretched shades of red….

Can you see what happened to his baby white skin?  Do you see the angry red strip across the back of his neck?  It looks like I put a piece of duct tape on him and then ripped it off….  After the doctor told us on Thursday it was eczema, I have to admit I was bewildered.  But I was blessed to get advice from so many people.  We started using the steroid cream as recommended by our pediatrician…but Coop would scream in pain as I tried to apply it (note:  when I called to inquire about this….I was told it may burn some since the skin is open…hence the screams of agony) 

But then….On Friday, I received an email from a friend, Chaney (if you think I loved her before….just you wait!!)  She sweetly reminded me that she is a nurse and does have some first hand experience with this condition.  Boy, does she ever!  Her daughter was 6 months old when the eczema first appeared…and it was more than 4 months ( plus a pediatrician and 3 dermatologists) until her daughter’s condition was under control.  But since then (over a year) little Paige has been great. 

THIS ADVICE WORKED FOR COOP IN LESS THAN 24 HOURS…just look:

Forgive the slightly blurry picture, but Coop is excited…he keeps yelling, “my boo-boos are gone!” And he is right.  Just look at his beautiful skin (the red on the right side of his tummy is his birthmark).

Now…here’s what I did….this advice came from a pediatric dermatologist.  It was given to Chaney for her daughter, but I was desperate to help Coop (and avoid using the painful steroid cream if at all possible)  The dermatologist prefers a ‘holistic’ approach.

1) Give your eczmea suffering child a bath 3-4 times a day for about 5 minutes at a time.  Fill the tub with water and add 1/4 to 1/2 cup of white vinegar or household bleach (admittedly the bleach freaked me out, but apparently the Dr. said when it is diluted with that much water – the whole tub- it is like swimming in a pool)  Still…I chose the vinegar.  Use Cetaphil soap to wash them.  Don’t use anything with fragrance.

2) As soon as you get them out…quickly pat them dry and slather them with Vaseline petroleum jelly.  Yep, cover their little bodies….layer it on, lube them up…it will trap the moisture in.  Then get them dressed.

I gave Coop 4 baths yesterday.  By the time his final one rolled around before bed, the eczema was all but GONE.

I also switched to ALL Free and Clear laundry detergent and Bounce Free and Clear Dryer Sheets.  I washed Coop’s sheets and ours and am working on everything else.

I didn’t even get to all the additional suggestions, but here they are:

3) Purchase old-school mineral oil.  Use small cotton squares to apply mineral oil to the affected areas throughout the day

4) If the face or genitals are affected, use zinc oxide (not a product with zinc, but actual 100% Zinc oxide)

5) Use the steroid cream once a day if necessary.  Apply only to raised, red areas.  Don’t use for more than two weeks at a time.  Take a maximum of a 2 week holiday from the cream and start again if needed.

Good Heavens…I think that is it.

I’m clearly not a doctor…but I’m just sayin’…I love me some Chaney!  Not only has this remarkable girl helped to deliver both my babies…she has now saved me the agony of MONTHS of trial and error.

Thank you, my friend!

PS…don’t you all forget about our Toddler/Baby T-shirt Contest!

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