A Mother’s Hands – Why Moms Matter

Think about your hands and all they do for your family – the holding, the guiding, the craft making, the toy fixing, the meal making, the cleaning.

Now just what would you do with those hands for your family if you knew your time was limited? Would you hold their hands every chance you got?  Would you make the very best meals you could to nurture their bodies?  Would you sit down and write a letter with all of your hopes and dreams for them?

It is hard to imagine.

Let’s take a trip back to 1981.  A young mother, Becky, is diagnosed with breast cancer.  Her sweet son, Josh, is only 4 years old.  She knows she will never see his first day of kindergarten.  She will miss his first jump shot and his first home run.  She will never know his first girlfriend or be there to discipline him for missing curfew.  She won’t see him get his driver’s license and she can’t be there to take pictures as he leaves for Prom.

She won’t ever know his wife, wear a mother of the groom dress or dance with him to a sappy song on his wedding day.  She won’t know her grandchildren. 

But, maybe, because of Becky’s love for her son, Josh, her future grandchildren will know her.

It is now 2009.  Josh is married.  He and his wife Sharon are expecting their first child.  The baby shower is this weekend.  Josh’s Aunt Marsha calls him this past week.  This is a conversation she has waited 25 years to have. She has a gift, from Josh’s motherone that she made, for the new baby.  Can she bring it to the shower this weekend?

Josh now knows what the gift is. His wife Sharon doesn’t, but she can see an extra spring in her husband’s step. She knows Becky must have been one extraordinary mother.

All those years ago, Becky used her hands to care for her family in one final way. 

What is the gift?

To be continued……

Know a Mom Who Matters? Nominate her now at www.WhyMomsMatter.com.

Blog Tour! Why Moms Matter – Blog Talk Radio

You, Mommys of the world, YOU matter.  You know that, right? 

I know, it is easy to forget in the day to day of nose wiping, diaper changing, homework doing, manner teaching, attention paying, family feeding and all-around-loving that you do, but I’m here to tell you, YOU MATTER. 

Amidst all the joy, the challenges, the sacrifice, You are still You – a woman, yes, a mother, yes.  And what you do with your family every day is truly extraordinary.

joshandrebeccaJoin the  MomFavesteam of Josh and Rebecca Unfried and me (Danielle) every Friday on our Why Moms Matter Blog Talk Radio Show, beginning this week, March 6th at 12:30PST/2:30 CST as we highlight ‘Ordinary Moms with Extraordinary stories.”

 

img_1080The Why Moms Matter Project recognizes the beauty and significance of Mothers.  Each week on the show, a new mother, or grandmother will be highlighted for being an extraordinary example of motherhood. You will hear stories that make you laugh and some that make you cry, but every story, every woman, will remind you Why Moms Matter.  Each week’s featured Mom will also be profiled on www.ExtraordinaryMommy.com and on www.WhyMomsMatter.com.

And, don’t forget to nominate any mom you know who is going above and beyond for her family.  No sacrifice is too small, no challenge too easy – Nominees do not need to be bloggers.  We have already received some amazing stories – we know you know an Extraordinary Mommy. We want to hear from you!

As a special treat for Mother’s Day, we will be combining all the stories we recieve into an E-Book to be given away for FREE!  Listen to the show for more details!

All this week and next, the Why Moms Matter Blog Talk Radio Show  will be ‘touring’the blog world.  Check back each day to follow our travels.  If you would like to join the Blog Tour by highlighting WhyMomsMatter on your blog, send me an email at danielle@ExtraordinaryMommy.com.

Announcement – Blog Talk Radio Show Coming Soon!

If you want to nominate a mom for WhyMomsMatter (or just learn a bit more about it),
click here.

If you would like to join the Blog Tour next week and help us spread the word about the WhyMomsMatter Blog Talk Radio Show (we will love you forever) either post a comment here on the blog, or email me directly at Danielle@ExtraordinaryMommy.com .

P.S. The Blog Tour is easy peasy!  If you want to participate, there are two options – we can give the info on the show and the WhyMomsMatter Project and you can share it with your readers one day next week OR you can ask us any questions you want about the project and then create your own post.  We wanted you to have options since you know YOUR readers the best!

We are so grateful for all of the people who are already helping us spread the word about this wonderful project that we truly hope will give so many amazing moms the recognition they deserve!

WhyMomsMatter Blog Talk Radio starts Friday, March 6th at 2:30 Central (that’s 12:30 Pacific)  We can’t wait to hear from you!

We’ll call it proud…

OK…so this may come off slightly boastful, but that is not my intention….I am just extremely thrilled about a little something….

pretend this is said in a stage whisper ( I was mentioned in USA Today). 

I was interviewed last week as a result of my relationship  with children’s publisher, Mackinac Island Press.  They are too much fun…have the most amazing books (that you can see entirely online) and they are offering one heckuva deal for ExtraordinaryMommys (code Mommy123 gives you 30% off their books – can you spell H-E-A-V-E-N-L-Y??) And the book they talk about in the article, Santa Goes Green, is not only perfect for this time of year, but it shows kids how to be selfless.  Can’t ask for more than that!

Anyway….here it is…in all of its glory:

USA Today ExtraordinaryMommy

That’s the front page at the top…and then our article down below. (Life Section, page 4:) ) When I was forwarded the online link this morning, I actually thought it might only be online, but nope – there it is – in black and white.  I bought a copy (I mean 4).

I’m a little excited.  Excited about people seeing these wonderful books.  Excited about them getting the books with the discount. Thrilled that Mackinac will donate 10% of the proceeds from books sold via ExtraordinaryMommy.com to the charity of my choice.  I’m going to use the money to buy books for kids who don’t have regular access to works of art like these :) And, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t excited about the mere mention in the newspaper. I’m actually ecstatic.

If you don’t happen to have USA Today lying around, never fear: here’s the link to the story!

Life is Very, Very Good

You know, sometimes, when Life just falls into place and you realize that you are RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE?

Well…that’s me in a nutshell right now.  (It is because things have been busy falling into place that I haven’t been blogging so much lately)

Life is Good.  Surely, you’ve heard the phrase…but are you familiar with the company?  Up until 4 months ago, I wasn’t.  Well, of course I’d heard the phrase, but I didn’t know the story of Bert and John Jacobs.  And I didn’t know that these 2 brothers have managed, over the course of the last 14+ years, to harness the optimism that this little phrase suggests…and turn it into a phenomenon.  That phenomenon even has a character: Jake.

I won’t tell you everything, as I know they tell their story better than I ever could, but I will explain how the stars aligned to show me the light and get me on board the Life is Good train.

In June, my husband accepted a new job.  Before he had even started working, he was flown to a seminar in Florida.  You may remember me blogging about what a hard trip it was for him. (ha!)  Either way, the featured speaker at this event showed up barefoot, in a t-shirt and shorts and left Jeff with his mouth open.  Jeff called me that night and said he had just heard, “the best public speaker ever!” That speaker was Bert Jacobs, one of the brothers who founded Life is Good.  Jeff proceeded to share the story of Life is Good with me and made some business suggestions for ExtraordinaryMommy.com based on what he had heard. 

Bert talked about the Life is Good Festivals….events held in a number of cities around the country….they are free, family centered, and the money raised goes to help children facing unfair challenges through the Life is Good Kids Foundation. (This year the money raised is going to Project Joy…more about them in a minute). 

Being my husband, Jeff is, of course, privy to my big dreams for ExtraordinaryMommy.com and knows well that I had hoped to start a non-profit through the site that would benefit kids.

This was a light bulb moment for Jeff.  If the Life is Good Festival benefits kids….why shouldn’t he suggest I try to start one in the St. Louis area?  He knew we had never had one…..hmmm.

Here’s where the stars start to line up.

Jeff shares all this with me.  I start thinking.  And the next day, I start talking about it all to a girlfriend.  As I’m talking, I look to my right and recognize Jake, the Life is Good Ambassador, and a store I had never before noticed: Jake’s on Main.  Small world, right?  It gets better.

I want to go right in to the store.  My girlfriend…who has been patiently listening to my story, tells me she knows someone who works in the store.  We go in, and I meet Amy. (who my girlfriend knew)  Within 2 minutes of ‘hello’, Amy mentions she is working on planning the first Life is Good Festival for our area.  (Can you stand it?)

Out of my mouth flies an offer to help.  Followed closely by a string of sentences meant to convince Amy to truly take me up on my offer.

She did. I can’t explain why she took a chance on a stranger like me, but she did.

She made me the volunteer coordinator.  Heavenly.  In less than 60 days we managed to get close to 100 volunteers for the event.  Without these special people, this event couldn’t have had the power it did.  I am beyond grateful to the people who donated their time and energy to this event.

The Life is Good Festival was yesterday.  It was food.  It was music. It was arts and crafts.

 

 

 

 

 

         

Most importantly it was JOY and PLAY.

 

 

 

 

 

 

You see that fantastic purple, green and red tent?  That was at the event courtesy of the tremendous, amazing (do you think I liked them) team from Project Joy.  What is Project Joy, you ask?  Here’s my take:  they believe that it is a child’s inalienable right to experience joy.  They say, “Children need food and water to survive. To live, they must play.”  Project Joy is making that happen.  They work with kids who have experienced trauma and they are putting the play, love and joy right back into their lives.

 

It was a long day.  It was so rewarding.  It was better than I dreamed. I worked with some fantastic people: John, Jim, and Dave from Life is Good, Steve and Ant from Project Joy, Scott and Sarah, who own Jake’s on Main.  (Scott was actually the ‘husband’ I mentioned the other day – lucky Sarah) Amy was in charge of the event. Tanya and Eric, Julie, Emma, and Elizabeth all worked hard for hours and hours…and then of course the volunteers.  I mentioned them once before, but it bears mentioning again: they were phenomenal.

Friends of mine stepped up to the plate and gave their time (thank you friends).  Dozens of people gave hours, some donated their entire day and then some.  I even watched someone enjoying the event step in to help.  Tremendous. 

And a special treat I didn’t even expect when I offered to volunteer….my very own booth.

Isn’t it sweet?  How much do I love my friends who spent their whole fabulous fall Saturday telling Moms all about ExtraordinaryMommy.com?  How much do I love them for their giving spirits and for their creative hands that helped me to make the goodies (cookies and flower pens) we gave away?

And for working with kids on little crafts?  Thank you friends.  Thank you volunteers.  Thank you husband for making sure I had the time to do the work I did on the Festival.  Thank you mother and father in law for volunteering.  Thank you volunteers.  Again.

I am truly blessed.  And I can’t wait to start planning for next year’s Festival.

 Life is Good.

The best sound in the world

There are a lot of sounds I like….sounds that evoke emotion or take me to a specific memory…the roar of the ocean, church bells, a college football team taking the field for a game, the music that starts the Today Show, my husband’s laugh, strong wind, most music, marching bands, the National Anthem, the crack of the bat.

 But, by far, the very BEST sound in the world: my children laughing.  I’m not talking about a quick laugh, a snort or even a little giggle.  I mean that deep belly laugh. You know the one that starts in their toes.  You can actually feel it moving through their little bodies…and when it erupts from their mouths, you can’t help but laugh along.  It is the sound of pure joy. 

This noise, this belly laugh, this sound of pure joy, it is the soundtrack to my soul.  If it was the only thing I heard for the rest of my life, it would be enough.  I am smiling right now just thinking about them.

And the best part is…that laugh is so easy to come by.  I spend hours of my day trying to get them into their best giggle box state, but the truth is, it is so simple.  They belly laugh when I tickle them.  They belly laugh when I make faces at them, or when they make faces at each other.  They belly laugh when we all sing together.  They belly laugh when I ask for kisses and hugs.  They belly laugh when I mimic them. They REALLY belly laugh when Daddy plays with them.

I have a quiet laugh.  I have always been envious of people with big, loud, confident laughs.  I think I’m going to work on that.  I’ll focus on the pure joy of childhood and see if I can’t find my big laugh.