Broken Window

Cooper Double BaseballCrash! Glass Shatters!

4 eyes stare at me… mouths agape … waiting … waiting … for my reaction.

“Atta Boy Cooper!  Finally!” I exclaim.

Huh.  Incredulously, my 6-year old slugger and 8-year old shortstop look at me like I’ve gone crazy.

“Um, Dad, you’re not mad that I just broke a window?” says the line drive hitter.

“Heck, no, for the past two weeks, I’ve been telling you to wait for the baseball to get deep into the zone.  You’ve been jumping at everything.  Too eager.  Not that time.  You let the ball travel.  You hit it off your back foot.  And, you squared it up.  So, we have to buy a new window.  That’s part of it.  You.  Must.  Stay.  Back.  Trust your hands.  Got it?” I explain.

“Unbelievable” says the pony-tailed softball phenom under her breath, “Not only is he not in trouble, he’s getting congratulated for breaking a window?  Well, fine, I’ll go spill Chocolate Milk on the Living Room carpet. That’ll probably earn me a trip to Toys R Us.”

Cooper smiles.  Delaney shakes her head.  I peer over to the window surveying the damage.

“Okay, pep talk you two.  We do NOT tell Mom, got it?” says the former Coach-now-turned-Dad/Husband.

Delaney rolls her eyes, “Now, how in the world are we going to keep her from finding out about a shattered window?  Are you going to fix it?”  She laughs.

“Yeah, Dad, you can fix it.  You can fix anything,” says a very supportive Cooper.

“Cooper, seriously.  Have you ever met our Dad?” says a more realistic Delaney.

“Um… Dad, actually, what are you going to do?   You’re not the best at fixing things,” states a now more realistic Cooper.

“It’s a Double, you two,” I say in a relieved tone.

An all of a sudden greedy Cooper barks, “Wait a minute, I thought a hit off the house counted as a triple.”

I assume the dual role of Score Keeper and Dad, “It does.  By the way, 2 runs scored on that.  But, I meant it’s a Double Pane window, and well, only a Single pane broke, so we’ll just clean up the glass, toss it in the trash can, and move on.  Everyone cool with that?”

Delaney is clearly not happy with the Scorekeeper role, “I’m cool with everything except the fact he gets 2 RBI’s on a hit that breaks a window.”

Cooper continues his evolution from petrified to now very confident, “I’m cool with all of it.”

A dumbfounded Delaney chimes in again, “The 7th inning started with me up 1 run and 0 broken windows.  Now, I’m down 1 run, your down 1 window, and Cooper gets a High 5 for all of this?  Okay, let’s get this half inning over with.  I’m ready to stick.  I’m sending one into the living room.  We’ll be getting Ice Cream tonight for sure.”

“You do that into the NEIGHBOR’S living room, and you got a deal,” says the very mature 37-year old; that’s me by the way.

A very naive Cooper asks, “Which neighbor?  The Cardinal Fan or the Cubbbbbb … Fan.  Ooooooooooooh, forget it.  I got it.”

Cooper swings at the first pitch as the game starts back up, “Yeah, I got it too.”  Pop up lands in Softball Mitt.  “Give me the Bat.  I got last licks.” says a revenge-minded (and witty) Delaney.

Game ends with Delaney plating two in the bottom of the 7th to win 3-2.

She did not hit any balls into any living rooms.  Danielle (aka Mom) did find out about the window that evening only because yours truly put the darn glass shards on the top of the trash inside the big garage can.  Delaney looked at me when Danielle found out and said “You’re a genius, Dad.”  She’s right.  I fixed my 6-year old’s swing.  What’s more important than that???!!!

Sincerely,

Coach Dad

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Jeff, Cooper and DelaneyJeff Smith is a Dad first, Coach second.  A former Sportscaster and Play-by-Play Announcer, he lives to give his kids the true spirit of sports and a strong foundation as truly good people.  No matter what his career path, his priority has always been clear: his family.  This site has been lucky enough to have him writing his regular Daddy Diary since its inception.

To connect with Jeff, find him on Twitter.

For more of his incredible writing… read on:

iRule, iThink

Courage, Size 6: Lessons from the Sidelines

The True Rules of Soccer and Life

The Road to U.S. Citizenship: An American Perspective

A Coaching Philosophy to Live By

 

The Holy Sh*t Moment: A Daddy Diary

Snow Family CarHoly Sh*t!

Car is sliding off the road.  Snow is falling so quickly that I cannot see more than 50 feet in front of me.  Back end starts to zig on me.  Front end decides to zag.  So, I do what any driver does in this situation, I yell out…

“Holy Sh*t!”

And, what follows… a speech from my two back seat English majors, ages 6 and 8.

“Dad, you said a bad word,” States Officer Clean Mouth from the Department of (Linguist) Corrections.

“Dad, you really could have found a better word than that word.  That’s the “other” S-word,” explains his partner, 2 years his Senior (29 years my Junior).

“Yah, Dad, at least you didn’t say “Shut Up!” chimes in the “now” fortune teller.

(Hmmmmm… I’m not a fan of the “other” S-word either, but this might be the time… I’m just thinking out loud here)

As I continue to listen to this wonderful introduction of English 101 from my two little professors, the car is still scooting sideways scraping the street’s shoulder.  Those are all “S” words.  No problem with those I guess.  Sheesh (I’ll use that one next time when my blood pressure isn’t soaring skyward… I’ll stop with the alliteration now.  I Solemnly Swear.)

“Dad, here’s the thing, Mom says there’s always a better word to use than a bad word.”

“Yah, Dad, Mom doesn’t say “sucks”… She says “unfortunate” … She doesn’t say “crap” … She says “unnecessary” … She doesn’t say “shut-up”… She says “listen up.”  So, see, Dad, there’s a better word than that “S” word.

As the Preachers continue their sermon, the car (and my mind) is going in a completely different direction.

Holy Sh*t!!!

Dad!!!

Car corrects it-self.  We come to a stop on the shoulder of the road.  My heart beat slows.  They both look to the right and see a steep decline.  They both look forward and see me look to the sky.  And, they both screech in unison…

“Holy Sh*t!!! It worked.  Nice driving Dad.”

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Jeff, Cooper and DelaneyJeff Smith is a Dad first, Coach second.  A former Sportscaster and Play-by-Play Announcer, he lives to give his kids the true spirit of sports and a strong foundation as truly good people.  No matter what his career path, his priority has always been clear: his family.  This site has been lucky enough to have him writing his regular Daddy Diary since its inception.

To connect with Jeff, find him on Twitter.

For more of his incredible writing… read on:

iRule, iThink

Courage, Size 6: Lessons from the Sidelines

The True Rules of Soccer and Life

The Road to U.S. Citizenship: An American Perspective

A Coaching Philosophy to Live By

 

There is No Place Like Home

Delaney and DaddyI’m scared.  And Frustrated.  Today is a Bad Day.

My Little Girl is on her way to the emergency room.

A Winter Storm has ripped thru my home town.  The Governor of Missouri has declared a State of Emergency.

My wife, a Southern California native, is driving on the snow/ice packed streets of suburban St Louis.

And, I’m in a Hotel room 700 miles away from my girls who need me.

This is how I define helpless.

I’m relegated to typing my thoughts on this piece of paper in between “Our Fathers and Hail Mary’s” as my 8-year old daughter suffers from severe stomach pain and a fever north of 100 degrees for 60plus hours at this point.  My wife has called our Pediatrician who instructed her to take Delaney to the ER.  The fear is appendicitis.

I’ve checked Mapquest.  I’m a 12 hour drive away…and, that’s with “light traffic” and “nice weather.”  I’ve called the airlines.  There are no flights into St Louis until tomorrow.  My scheduled flight doesn’t depart for another 12 hours.  That flight is to go through Cleveland which is supposed to receive the same winter storm right about the time I’m supposed to arrive for my layover.  I’m scrambling… I need to get home to my baby girl.

I’m her Daddy.  I’m supposed to be there…

I wrote the preceding story as it was happening  days ago.  Many tests were run on my little “Mini” as I call her.  Physician’s diagnosis was an intestinal virus that ran its course over the next 72 hours.  She was able to rise again on the 3rd day.  She was stuck, prodded, poked, x-rayed, and “messed around with” (her words) for over 3 hours.  And, I ended up being there the entire time… thanks to Face Time on my iPhone.  We watched cartoons together.  I told her jokes.  She didn’t laugh.  I know what you’re thinking, wow, she must have been sick.

Quick funny story:  Danielle placed me (her iPhone) on the top of Delaney’s Hospital Bed in the Emergency Room.  Mini needed an IV because she was severely dehydrated.  She just couldn’t keep anything in her little tummy for those few days.  A nurse entered the room to stick her vein.  She stuck and stuck with no success.  And, she stuck her right arm (her throwing arm).  I’m still mad at myself for allowing that.  That’s a future Olympian’s softball throwing arm… You just don’t stick that.  Anyway, Nurse #2 entered the room to try the left arm.  Thank you very much.  Danielle had forgotten to mention that I was present in the room, hovering above Delaney’s pounding head.  Nurse #2 was successful on her first stick in the left arm.  I said “thank God” and she looked to the heavens trying to figure out where that voice came from…Well, it came from the father of course, the father of the patient.

This story makes me thankful for many things.

I’m thankful to my daughter’s care givers of course.  I’m thankful that she ended up being okay.  I’m thankful that her right arm has no lingering negative effects from being stuck with a needle multiple times.  I’m thankful that she still has a rocket of an arm on the right side of her torso.  I’m thankful that Danielle made it safely to and from the hospital that evening then into the morning.  And, I’m really, really thankful that I was there with my little girl the entire time thanks to the technology of our world.

It’s just so cool to be alive in 2013.

I’m heading home tomorrow.  Now, if I could just get an App to make it 80 and sunny every day.  My wife tells me there is an App for that… It’s called SoCal.  I’ll have to run a search… only after I get some real life Face Time with my kiddos when they get home from school.  Today is a good day.

Sincerely,

A Thankful Daddy

Winning Isn’t Everything: A Lesson in Parenting

Dad and Kiddo time“Dad, are you mad?”

“Coop, mad?  About what?”

“Well, you lost that radio contest, so I thought you might be mad.”

“Buddy, have you ever seen me mad?”

“Um, yeah Dad.”

“When?”

“Well, when Delaney and I fight or argue or I don’t make my bed or I don’t turn the light off in my room or I don’t clean up my Legos or the Cardinals bunt with a runner on second and nobody out in the first 7 innings of a game or … “

“Okay, okay, I get it.  I might get “upset” from time to time, but I don’t get mad about losing a contest or a game or really anything (many friends and family are laughing at that last statement).  I might be disappointed, sure, but mad, no, pal, I’m not mad.” (Note:  I was a Finalist for a local sports radio contest, winner’s prize was to broadcast live from Jupiter, FL at the St Louis Cardinals Spring Training Facility.  Yes, this is on the “Bucket List.”)

“Really?  I get mad when I lose.”

“Come here dude, time for a Daddy Talk.  This is a good teaching point for a 6-year old.  Good for a 37-year old too.”

“Okay”

“Here’s the deal.  Losing is a part of life slugger.  Did you know that Babe Ruth struck out One Thousand Three Hundred and Thirty Times?  That was the record for strikeouts when he stopped playing?”

“He did?  I thought Babe Ruth was the greatest baseball player of all time?”

“He is Cooper.  The Babe also has the 2nd most career home runs behind Hank Aaron who himself struck out even more than the Great Bambino.  (Note:  We don’t recognize Barry Bond’s Career Home Run Total in our house).  You see, “a swing and a miss” or “losing” is a part of life.  There’s always going to be a winner and loser.  In order to be a winner, you, also, need to know how to lose too.  It’s just part of the game.  The Cardinals play 162 games right?  Do they win them all?”

“No Dad.”

“No Coop.  Of course not.  But, they give their best effort every game, though, right?”

“Well, I’ve heard you yell at the TV before and say “Guys, what are you doing?  And then you say the Cardinals are acting like the 1919 Chicago White Sox, only you call them the Black Sox?”

“Okay, maybe sometimes, I get a little carried away, but that’s only in October, only in the playoffs, and only because I want them to win sooooo badly.  But, you’re right, I shouldn’t yell at the TV.  It’s not the Zenith’s fault.  And, yes, they’re trying very hard to win.  As for the 1919 Chicago White Sox, well, that’s a story for another day.  Here’s the thing.  Did I want to win the contest?  Absolutely.  Would it have been cool for the four of us to go to Spring Training?  Yep times 11 Cardinals World Championships.  Would I have been as excited as you are on Christmas morning to interview the Cardinal players?  One Hundred Percent, yes, Cooper.  But, someone else was better this time.  There was another fan that won this game.  Does that mean I’m disappointed?  Sure.  Anytime you want to win something, work hard to earn the prize that comes with winning, and it doesn’t work out, it’s okay to be disappointed, but there’s always a lesson to be learned.”

“What’s the lesson this time?”

“Well, I wasn’t sure until just now, but I think the lesson this time is to show you and your sister how to act after losing or missing out on something you really, really might want.  The lesson is to congratulate the winner, realize there’s always another game, play that game again, and do even better next time.  And, until that next time, practice, figure out how to be better, so that when that opportunity comes around again, you can win the game.  Make sense?”

“So, you’re going to try again?”

“What would have happened if Babe Ruth would have stopped playing baseball each time he struck out?”

“You and I couldn’t have watched the Movie “Sandlot” that’s for sure…”

“Exactly, and Babe Ruth would have never hit all of those home runs.”

“714, right Dad?”

“Well done, Cooper, same as your birth weight, that’s a sign by the way… I’ll explain more on that some other time too”

“The point is, you’re going to strike out.  Learn from the swings and misses.  Figure out how to hit the ball on the sweet spot next time.  Your turn will come back around, and the next time, knock it into James Earl Jones’ backyard.  But, the key is to climb back in that box, and try again.  Deal?”

“Deal Dad.  Hey Dad, since you’re not mad, I just want to tell you that I spilled Orange Juice on your Catcher’s Mitt. But, I now learned to not drink Juice with your most favorite thing in the whole world.  I’ll use my other hand next time.   I’m not mad though… I’ll just do better next time.  See, I’m already learning.  Thanks Dad.”

Sincerely,

Dad of a Winner

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Jeff Smith is a Dad first, Coach second.  A former Sportscaster and Play-by-Play Announcer, he lives to give his kids the true spirit of sports and a strong foundation as truly good people.  No matter what his career path, his priority has always been clear: his family.  This site has been lucky enough to have him writing his regular Daddy Diary since its inception.

To connect with Jeff, find him on Twitter.

For more of his incredible writing… read on:

iRule, iThink

Courage, Size 6: Lessons from the Sidelines

The True Rules of Soccer and Life

The Road to U.S. Citizenship: An American Perspective

A Coaching Philosophy to Live By

 

 

Softball Angels

Twelve Angels stared at me.  I looked into their eyes which were underlined with a black crayon type substance.  The visors hovered above their heads being supported by pony tails similar to the image of a dozen halos.  If bells were ringing, I would have asked them all to turn around, so I could check to see if they, in fact, had wings.  I would have believed it after how far they’d risen after getting knocked down only two nights prior by the same team.  Seven innings were complete in this game.  21 innings over the course of the day.  These floating phenoms had been at this same field for over seven hours.  And, yet, this game was still tied.

This story is about the most exciting day I’ve ever experienced on a diamond.

The Lake St. Louis Angels are a group of 7 and 8 year old softball players, of which my daughter is a part.  Yours truly is one of the coaches.  I entered the team in a “club level” tournament in a neighboring county, about an hour round trip commute from home to Field 6.  The Angels are a “rec” team meaning it’s a group of friends that like playing together.  This weekend’s competition includes teams that were “hand selected” to find the best 12 players for their team.  I don’t begrudge this type of team.  I think there are a time and a place for a “select” team.  I’m just not ready to commit my 7-year old to “select” softball quite yet.  (This is where this post could go in a different direction, but I’m saving that type of discussion for another day).  Now, that you have a quick idea of who the Angels are and what they’re up against, I’m going to take you to Game 1.  Friday Night.

12-0 Loss.  Ugh.  What did I get these kids into?  I felt responsible for making their parents drive through rush hour only to get shellacked by what appeared to be superior talent and definitely was superior coaching.  I felt terrible.  For the kids.  For the parents.  I was close to retiring.  Then, the Angels taught this coach a lesson.

Sunday Morning, 9:15am.  It was 45 minutes before first pitch, I’m throwing BP to some of the girls, and my stomach was in knots.  I thought to myself, “well, if we get rocked again, I guess we could all go swimming.”  It was hot.  And, all of a sudden, so were the Angels’ bats.  18 runs later, the team that was blanked 36 hours prior defeated a highly skilled team aptly knows as “the Prospects” by ten runs.  18-8 Final.  The Angels advance to a 4 pm Semi-Final Game, opponent TBD.

We all leave the complex, grab some eats, return at 3:15p for warm-ups to find out the Prospects get another shot at Heaven’s Heroes.  Time to let you inside my little mind…On one glove, if we lose, well, it was worth the trip because we played three games, won one, and were able to see the level of competition that we could play at…and, on the other glove, if we win, I found out the team that whipped us on Friday night would be our opponent for a Championship Game.  That could be rough as well, but it would be nice to see what these kids can do if they play the way they did that morning.  Okay, Angels, let ‘er fly.  And, fly, they did, around the bases, run after run after run, putting up another 18 to win yet again 18-10.

So, it’s time for a shot at the New York Yankees.  That’s what this team looked like.  These kids were dressed as sharply as they played.  And, they were smart.  Their coach was speaking Spanish and English to them.  I was impressed and intimidated.  I’m lucky if I can find more than one way to say “please, I’m begging you, when you’re in the field, do not take your eye off the ball, if you do, the ball will find your eye.”  And, you know what, our kids could care less what type of glossy finish was on their uniform, what language they were speaking or that they had a perfect record through the first 21 games of their summer season.  I wish I was 8 again.  Kids are smart.

If you started reading this post at the top, you now know that the score is tied after 7 innings which means “extra innings” because well, this is the Championship Game, and the scoreboard must dictate a winner.  Our team runs off the field and straight to me.  I stop them in a group huddle prior to entering the dugout.  I say to them “Angels, I’m so proud of you.  You’ve taught me a lesson in never, ever giving up, not ever.  And, I’m here to tell you that no matter what happens in the 8th inning and/or beyond, you all deserve a high as the sky, where the Angels live, High 5.”  One of the little girls looks at me and asks, “Coach Jeff, do we get a trophy if we lose this game and finish in second place?”  “I’m really not sure ladies, but it’s not about the trophy, it’s about how far you’ve come since Friday.  You’ve shown everyone what you can do.”  Then, they all just glared at me, like I insulted their talent level.  One of the girls gets right up next to me and says “Coach Jeff, we’re here to win. Who bats first this inning?”

Now, I’m going to give you a brief Play-by-Play.  The Yankees…er Redhawks make some dazzling plays in the field, and the Angels have a runner on a second base with 2 out, no runs have scored this inning and my kid is at the plate.  Keep in mind that the Redhawks have “last licks” (baseball speak for … they’re the home team, so get to bat last).  Well, Delaney makes an out.  She’s crushed.  Her head is buried under her jersey.  It’s all tied up heading to the bottom of the 8th.  One of the other Dads takes her aside and tells her that it’s a part of the game, and she needs to get out to her position and make a play to assure that there is a 9th inning, and that this game won’t end quite yet.  A couple of her teammates pat her on the back as they head to stop the Redhawks one more time.

First hit of the bottom of the 8th is a line drive scorcher two steps to our shortstop’s left.  Our shortstop is Delaney.  She snags it.  One out.  The smile is back.  (Special thank you to the Dad that pumped her up…he knows who he is, and I’ve thanked him a thousand times in the past week).  Inning ominously progresses.  Bases are now loaded, two out, so championship run is only 60 feet away.  Are you ready for this?  One hop smash to the pitcher’s left (Emma), she gets a small piece of it, re-directing it to the second baseman, Maddie, who throws to Libby, our first baseman to get the runner by a half step.  Holy Angels up on High!!!  I look to the heavens and cannot believe what just happened.  I half expected a real angel to be standing in front of me.  What I got were 12 of them looking at me, completely mute, waiting for instructions.  That’s a miracle in itself.  One of them just said “Okay, Coach, we held them like you asked us to do, now what? 9th inning, right?  Who’s up?  Let’s end this thing.”

And, end it, they did.  The Angels scored 5 in the 9th to the Redhawks 3 and won the game by an NFL-esque score of 28-26.

After the last was recorded, I didn’t say a word.  I walked down the right field line, and just watched a group of friends have the time of their life celebrating with each other.  I’m thankful that my wife took pictures, a lot of pictures.  It was like a scene in a movie, best I’ve ever seen.  I give it 12 stars.

 

The Perfect Date

I had a date Friday night.

This Girl was the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen.  She had sandy brown hair, with deep, dark brown eyes, and a smile that made me smile.  Really.  She would smile, then I would smile instantly.  I tried to play it cool, but she made me feel like I was a kid again.

We had dinner at my house.  It was Good Friday, so I made a cheese dish with a fruit salad.  It’s not that she’s a vegetarian, but her religion would not allow her to eat meat on the Friday prior to Easter.  I respect a girl who stays true to her upbringing.  So, we feasted on “Quesadilla con Manzanas.”  Que Bueno.

After this scrumptious feast, we drove to St. Louis’ FOX Theater to see the Musical “Bring It On.”  I had one eye on the stage and one on this beautiful angel to my left.  The show was about a High School Cheerleading Squad (if you’ve seen the movie by the same title, then you get the gist of the musical).  The cast was the most talented group of people I’ve ever seen in one location.  For 2 and half hours, they sang, danced, twirled, tumbled and stomped their way into my memory forever.  How are people that talented?  I couldn’t even memorize that much copy, much less sing it, dance and do back handsprings across a stage in perfect synchronization.  And, it was LIVE.  One take.  Fantastic.

During the Intermission, my date and I talked about High School.  She wouldn’t stop asking questions about my High School experience, and I asked her questions about her schooling.  She’s very smart with much to offer to the conversation.  I was thoroughly engaged.  It turns out she’s a very good singer, but is a bit shy in public.  Very cute.

During the 2nd Act, she whispered in my ear that she was very thankful for me taking her to see this show, and even held my hand.  I smiled.  Again.

As we bounced out of the theater singing some of the songs from the night’s performance, we were planning our next date.  It turns out that she’s a baseball fan.

Jackpot!!!

Then, we headed back to her home.  I had the Radio tuned to XM79.  That’s Radio Disney for you non fans.  We sang all the way, well almost all of the way.  As we pulled into her driveway, I noticed that she had fallen asleep.  So, I parked the car, scooped her up in my arms, carried my date inside, tucked her into her bed and kissed her forehead.

Before I left her bedside, I whispered into her ear, “May all your dreams come true Delaney.  Thank you for being my date tonight.  Daddy loves you. Give me an I-L-O-V-E-U-A lot.”

 

My Greatest Sports Moment – A Daddy Diary

My 7-year old daughter (a smooth defensive infielder) approached the gates of Busch Stadium on October 27th and said to me, “Daddy, this feels different than the last Cardinal game we went to…There are a lot more people.  I mean, a lot more people. And, they just seem to be acting differently.  Why is that?”  I responded with pride, “Delaney, welcome to the World Series, the greatest sporting event there is, and our Cardinals are playing in it.”

We handed our Game 6 tickets to the Ticket Taker, and that’s where this story takes an evil turn.  Our tickets did not scan.  We were escorted to a member of the Stadium’s Management Team (not Tony Larussa), then asked to pay a visit to the Ticket Office.  We were informed that our tickets were counterfeit, and we were out of luck.  Within minutes, my daughter and I went from sitting in the bleachers inside Busch to sitting on a curb outside Busch.

We sat there for a few minutes without saying a word when finally my little girl gazed up at me with her sweet, innocent face which was buried underneath her RED winter stocking cap snuggled under 4 layers of RED shirts and sweatshirts, and says “Daddy, I don’t understand what just happened.  Why won’t they let us inside to watch the game?”  I admit it.  My eyes began to water and not because of the 25mph blustery wind hitting us with a 40 degree wind chill.  This was among the saddest moments of my life.

I explained to her that earlier in the day Daddy had purchased 2 tickets from a man who said he could not attend that night’s game due to a family conflict thanks to the previous night’s rainout.  Game 6 was supposed to be played the night before, but it was postponed due to rain.  He had a good story.  I bought it, and I bought what I thought to be 2 bleacher tickets to Game 6 of the World Series.  He got me.  In looking back, I can see the red flags now.  But, I admit that I was seeing RED that entire day, and wasn’t even thinking this was a possibility.  Yes, I’m naïve.  And, yes, I’ll never get on Craig’s List again.  I  know, I know, I’m an idiot for even thinking this was an option, but for a non season ticket holder that was struggling to swallow the Stub Hub prices, and lost out on the team’s auction for tickets, Craig’s List seemed to be my only option.  I know, I flubbed it. Error Daddy.

So, there we sat on the sidewalk for over an hour.  Delaney then turned to me and said “Daddy, let’s go get some dinner.”  So, we went over to Friday’s Restaurant which had cleared out as those with “real” tickets walked over to the game.  We watched the first couple of innings while eating a burger, fries, and a strawberry RED slushee (Delaney’s choice).  She said “Daddy, let’s walk back over to the Stadium.”  “Really?, I questioned”  “Yes, Daddy, I want to hear what it sounds like when that many people all get excited at the same time.  I want to hear what a World Series sounds like.”  Oh, yah, sure, I had dry eyes, and I can also hit a 99mph Fastball.  Not so much.

If the “seller” had walked past me at that point in time, I would have gone all Mike Tyson on him (not the Mike Tyson that played for the Cardinals in the 70s either).  I’m not tough.  I can also admit that.  But, you Dads know what I’m talking about.  This thief stole an experience from my little girl, and well, you don’t have to have biceps the size of Albert Pujols to knock someone out of the park.

My little “Red” bird and I walked around the Stadium for a couple of innings, just taking in the World Series atmosphere.  I tried to haggle with a couple of scalpers knowing the entire time that I just couldn’t bring myself to risk another counterfeit experience and spend more money on this game.  Besides, what if “we” lost?  Ugh.  I couldn’t go there either.  So, after the 4th Inning, I looked at a tired little girl and said “Honey, how bout we go home and watch the rest of the game with Mom and your brother?  I’m so sorry that we’re not inside watching this game.  I’m truly very sorry.”  She looked at me and said “Daddy, this was the best game that I’ve ever been to.  It’s the World Series, and I’m with you.”  Yep, call your Water Utility Company because I had enough H2O streaming down my cheeks to take care of your entire town.

So, she bounced into my arms, threw her arms around my neck squeezing me tighter than a runner from 3rd sprinting home on a sac bunt attempt (baseball reference), then I flung her onto my shoulders and I skipped all the way back to my car with my little girl singing “Take me out to the Ballgame” and of course, “Never say Never” by Justin Beiber.

We buckled into our seats in the Top of the 5th.  She was asleep 1 out later.  When we arrived at our home, it was the 6th.  I picked her up, put her on the couch, and rubbed her head while she slept on my lap all the way until the Bottom of the 9th when 2 men were on, and 2 were out with 2 strikes on Cardinal batter David Freese.  You all know what happened in the game from that point on, but I will say this, she never even made a peep.  She was safe and sound at home, and that was good enough for her.  Thanks to the Home Town Kid, David Freese, the Cardinals, miraculously, won that game after being 1 strike away from elimination not once, but twice, and the 3rd baseman was the hero both times.

That game will go down as the greatest Baseball game in St Louis Cardinal History, and I’ll never forget it as my Greatest Sports Moment.  I owe it all to an infielder whose first name starts with the letter “D” …. Delaney Smith, my little girl.

Sincerely,

Delaney’s Daddy

November 27th, 2011