What I Learned From Olympian, Jake Kaminiski

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I first met Jake Kaminiski a few months ago at the Olympic Training Center in Chula Vista, California.  At the time, he was not assured of a trip to the 2012 Summer Olympic Games in London.  As an Archer, he had yet to qualify for his spot.  Jake first picked up a bow and arrow when he was six years old and began competing when he was nine.

And though I was clearly not dressed for the occasion, he spent a few hours with me and a group of bloggers – all guests of Kellogg’s – giving us a lesson in his sport.

In that time, I learned a number of valuable lessons from this soon-to-be Olympian

There is no substitute for paying attention.  After my very first shot, Jake was able to assess what I needed to adjust simply by the direction of that initial arrow.  He made one suggestion: That I close my left eye as I shoot.  I went from missing the target entirely to hitting red and yellow.

Having a skill and being a good coach are two different things.  You may be extremely talented at a sport but unable to guide others.  Jake is both.

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Practicing your craft is key.  Jake had the Olympics in his sights and he knew that he would have to continue practicing to get there.  A lifetime of experience isn’t enough when you are faced with your dream. You must keep going.

Breathing through fear can help you to focus.  I asked Jake about the intensity and mental focus each shot requires.  He is skilled at breathing and quieting his mind – allowing him to have faith in his abilities in the moments when it is just he and the target.  A powerful metaphor for life.

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There is no point in doing something if you don’t do it with purpose.  You will even hear Jake saw this in his Kellogg’s Start Story.  He has been moving towards this moment for a lifetime.

I am grateful to Jake for the time he spent with me.  You and I both know, athletics do not come easily to me, but I thoroughly enjoyed this lesson.  I found it to be both cathartic and mind cleansing.  It is on my list of things to do again.

Thank you, Jake.  Good luck – I will be watching from here!

If you would like to follow Jake’s journey – beginning of course on Friday, July 27th at the Olympic Opening Ceremonies, you can keep up with him on Twitter.

Photo Credits for 2nd and 4th pictures above: Trent Stafford

Disclosure: I am proud to say I am working with Kelloggs and was their guest for this trip.  As always, all thoughts and opinions share are mine alone.

2012 Summer Olympic Games, P&G Thank You, Mom: Best Job/Hardest Job Ad

My fascination with the Olympic Games began a long time ago.  Back when the dreams of being an Olympic athlete were beginning to rumble through my small head.  It was 1976.  Montreal, Canada. I was a mere three years old when my parents ran the last kilometer with the Olympic flame, escorting it just before it lit the actual torch that burned the duration of the Summer Olympic games.  They applied for this honor.  In addition to each person who carried the torch, six people were chosen to surround the flame during each portion of its journey.  But at the end, during the final leg, a few dozen – each bearing candles having been lit by the torch, joined the run.  My parents were two of those people.

No, I don’t remember everything.  I can remember the shirts you see us wearing in the picture.  I can remember how beautiful my mother looked in her ponytail and rainbow-colored headband.  I remember how proud my parents were at the time (and still are to this day).  In fact, I know they still have the candles they carried on that run.

Family legend says my swim coach approached my parents when I was six about training me for the Olympic games… my parents apparently told him he would have to explain the commitment to me – the practices, the hours required and then ask me if I wanted to do it. Shockingly, my six year old self wasn’t willing to commit to four hours of practice a day. There went my Olympic dream.

So, instead, I live vicariously… first through other athletes – watching Mary Lou Retton at the 1984 Los Angeles Summer Games with my mom…. and then in 2010, watching WITH the moms (and as a mom myself) in Vancouver at the P&G Family Home as they held their collective breathes…. waiting as their children competed… ice skating, skiing, hockey, speed skating…  The many hours of practice, the successes, the ‘almosts’….. all whirling through their minds.

Scotty and Shannon Bahrke (Shannon won the Bronze Medal in 2010 for Moguls Skiing)

And with every heart beat then… and every heart beat now, P&G salutes these moms with a simple:

Thank You, Mom.

I was never able to watch P&G’s 2010 Olympic Thank You, Mom ad without crying.  And this new one?  Same Beautiful Result.

Because being a mom really is The Best Job AND the Hardest Job.

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