The EVOlution of Intention. Inspired by Liz Strauss and Carol Roth.

I collect inspiration like other people hoard coins, or American Girl dolls, or signed baseballs or those silly little Precious Moments.

And by ‘collect’ I mean seek out, absorb, implement.

I read voraciously.  I listen deeply.  I watch others who do things well.  I think all.the.time.

So naturally, if given the opportunity, I will listen to and take the advice of successful people.

Enter Liz Strauss, Carol Roth and Ghennipher Weeks.  Do you know them?  Well, you should.  Not because they are amazing and successful.  Not because they know how to buckle down and work for what they want, not because they tell you that you are wonderful (they won’t unless they mean it)

But simply, because they are real and they have earned their following by being honest and forcing those of us who listen to take a long hard look in the mirror. Carol’s tagline is ‘sunshine and puppy-dogs not included’ – and she means it.

But let’s focus on my collection of inspiration.  I entered the “Doing Business in a Social Media World’ session at EVO (Evolution of Women in Social Media Conference) this past weekend with my imaginary cocktail shaker….prepped to gather the ingredients I would need to move forward, ready to shake them into the concoction that would make sense for me.

I walked away irresistible (Liz’s word – and what she demanded of us).  My shaker was filled with strategy, the value of my time, heart, and intention.

I’ll explain.

When I stop to consider where I am in this wild and wonderful world of blogging and social media, I know a few things:

  • I work hard.  Late nights and long hours don’t phase me.
  • I adore this wild, wild west that is social media
  • Having been a traditional journalist, my approach to everything I do is tinged with my experience – and that makes me stronger.  Story-telling is where my heart is.
  • I aim to operate as a professional.  The ‘me’ you see online is the same ‘me’ you get in person.
  • I love video.  And by love, I mean adore-can’t-live-without.  It is a vehicle to share the ‘real me’.  It is a story-telling tool.  I believe it is the future.

However….(this is where the cocktail shaker is coming in handy – during the assessment and subsequent attack on my flaws)

  • I can’t always claim to have worked smart.
  • I have had no business plan.  That’s right – none.
  • I have often fallen in to the category of dreamer, not doer.
  • I have failed to value my time, making it impossible for others to do so.

But this changes now.

Shake.  Stir.  Pour.

Liz and Carol asked if anyone was willing to pronounce themselves irresistible and state their intention (note:  the difference between a dream and a goal?  INTENTION)

I will confess.  I hesitated.

Enter inner dialogue:

If I say it out loud, it becomes more than a pipe dream, it becomes my responsibility.  If I say it out loud someone might remember and ask me about it.  What if I haven’t done it?  What if I haven’t even put my foot on the yellow brick road? What if…what if…what if.  Now wait a minute, Danielle, what are you really afraid of?  This is the first step.  Without the responsibility, without allowing for the input and guidance of others, without intention, you have nothing.

I raised my hand, I gripped the microphone.  And, in front of 75 odd people – some I know and some I don’t, I said, “This has always been my dream.  I would love to have a television show focused on telling people’s stories – average, everyday people.  We all have a story.  We all have something to learn from each other – and I want to be the one sharing those stories.  The caveat with the show – it will have to ‘give back’. ”

What does that ‘giving back’ look like?

I want to put computers in classrooms, food in the bellies of kids, provide cars for people to get to work, award scholarships to allow kids to go to college, bring military men and women home to see their families, grant wishes for kids who won’t live to grow up…..and so on and so on.

It is both a specific goal and a broad one.

It is my intention.

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  • http://dadarocks.com Dada rocks

    As you rocked the microphone you gave me the strength to stand up and follow your lead. To be anthers catalyst is important to know that you want to change and become your own catalyst is critical. You’ll reach the goals one step at a time and never worry about taking a step back when it means taking two forward.

  • http://www.ynrlive.com Yoly at YNR Live

    Thank you for sharing. This helps to solidify all the thoughts and goal making process I’m going through right now. You’ve been having an extraordinary year and have no doubts you’ll reach your goals. Now, I need to work on my intention.

  • http://www.superdumbsupervillain.com Naomi

    You will do this and it will be *amazing* both to watch and also to empower the people whose stories you share.

    I was so sorry to have missed that session; everyone who was there said it was a life-changer.

  • http://todaysmama.com Rachael

    I love seeing people answer this question. We are in a total wild wild west of social media and I think we’ll be amazed to look back in 5 years at how the dust settles around this tornado! And this little phrase: But this changes now. Shake. Stir. Pour. = BRILLIANT

  • http://www.noliesplace.com Nolie

    I am cheering you on from the sidelines.

  • http://momitforward.com Jyl Johnson Pattee

    This entire post reminds me of our very first conversation a year and a half ago! Love it. Love you. It’s been fun to be on this journey with you. Can’t wait to see the amazing things you bring to the wild, wild west in the months to come!

    xoxoxo

  • http://hoo-dee-hoo meredith

    great post Danielle!

    By saying OUT LOUD your own intentions, you give all those around you the courage and moxie to state, and follow theirs as well.

    I am SO sorry to have missed that session. I love the theme of intention and I plan to speak mine WAY more often too.

    Here’s to being doers of the dreams. Love it:)

  • http://www.purenaturaldiva.com Tania aka Pure Natural Diva

    Danielle,
    Thank you for sharing so poetically and so candidly. I for one can’t wait to cheer you along your journey.

  • http://thecraftingchicks.com Kirsten Wright

    great post!! I love that you stood up and said what you were thinking…planning :) I was the one that stood up and said that I wanted to be on Martha Stewart. Although I could really think of a bunch of things I would love to do that are more important than that; however, I intend to do that still. I also am one that craves inspiration and totally get choked up at the Opening and Closing ceremonies of the Olympics and other pep rally’s . I too loved their presentations, they were truly inspiring as well as the energy in the room. Thanks for the great piece of writing you just gave to us :) EVO 10 was fantastic and I will be changed forever because of what I learned there. :)

  • http://www.skimbacolifestyle.com Katja of Skimbaco

    I have no doubt that your TV show will happen. I will not say that “your dream will come true”, it’s not a dream :)

  • http://jennyonthespot.com jennyonthespot

    Oh the topic of intention… such a focus of my life these last many months. I have been consumed with identifying my intention across all areas of my life… wife, mother, woman, friendship, work… all with the hope that identifying my intention will serve as a filter for making decisions – deciding what to add and what to cut.

    I love reading about your moments here… and I love the thought that so many women were touched in this session (I was there, but didn’t have the nerve to speak-up…)… so many thinking about living intentionally. That means purpose-fully :) Simply beautiful.

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