3 Things Preteen Boys Need From Mom

I remember being twelve. Full of youthful confidence, I believed I knew everything, and it never dawned on me that I could be wrong, or unlikable, or really anything but sheer perfection. This was that blissful time between childhood and those ugly self-conscious teenage years when I felt I could do no wrong.

Now that I have a preteen of my own, I would like to publicly apologize to my parents and any other reasonable adult who had to endure those insufferable years with over-confident me.

Between ten and thirteen, a lot of developing occurs. No longer children, but not quite teenagers, kids in this age group are stuck in the twilight zone of growing up. I didn’t realize how hard it was until I found myself parenting a preteen.

For preteen boys, this time of development brings on new challenges as their bodies grow taller, their appetites grow larger (sweet mercy, the grocery bills will bring you to tears), and their ability to control impulses seems to die out completely.

Preteen boys teeter between sweet and sensitive, raucous and rough. They are learning the art of sarcasm, and filters seem to be washed away with the hormones that are coursing through their lengthening bodies.

Also, they start to smell…different. Where once they came in from playing outdoors smelling like sweet little dirty boys, now they smell like the inside of a locker room.

This can make a mom’s head spin.

There are three things your preteen boys need most from you in these changing days, Moms. These are the things that will protect your relationship with your little men while also allowing you, and them, to maintain a little sanity.

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1.) Patience. Unending patience.

It’s important to remember that these years are as confusing for your boys as they are for you. When they walk through the room and scream FOR NO REASON AT ALL, they are as baffled as you are. Asking them why they did that will do you no good, because they don’t know!

Gentle reminders of appropriate behaviors are key. Don’t chastise them for being twelve.

2.) They need a male role model.

I’m sensitive when I write this because I know that everyone has a different family dynamic. Not all of you have the blessing of a stable husband who can guide your boy into manhood, and I understand the heartache that such a thing may cause. So hear my heart here.

It is key that boys in these preteen years have a stable man they can talk to and learn from. If your husband is there and involved, wonderful! Do everything in your power to point and direct your son to him. Let your husband dole out the discipline. Send the boys out for breakfast on a Saturday morning, and let dad tell your boy how important it is to shower and wear deodorant every day.

If your boy’s father isn’t involved, look for someone who can fill this gap. A grandfather, a neighbor, a youth leader at church, or a good teacher. If it’s in your power to get your son in front of a man who will show him how to navigate these changing years, then do it. You won’t regret the decision.

3.) Give out hugs, and lots of them.

Your boys may not be little anymore, but they are still yours. Hug them often. Tousle their hair, and give little pecks on the cheek, even if you have to sneak them in when they least expect it. Find ways to identify with your boys, and let them know that you’re still on their side, and that you have their backs by speaking their boyish language.

As they grow up, they will begin to pull away from you. Dear Mom, this is okay. It can be painful to watch, but as they drift toward manhood, your influence on them will be that of supporter, cheerleader, and chronic hug-giver.

The preteen years are new waters, and navigating them can be difficult. You remember the little guy who snuggled up for extra kisses at bedtime – the boy who called you his girlfriend and promised to stay with you forever and always as he sipped his chocolate milk.

Now he’s taller, and he smells different and acts different, and as he spreads his wings your heart will hurt. It’s okay to embrace that pain, but then you have to move past it and enjoy the journey of watching your boy become a man.

And seriously, brace yourself for the grocery bills.

There is No Substitute for Showing Up: Head to New Media Expo

I first entered this space close to eight years ago.  In that time, I have learned a few things (many via mistakes) that I believe have made me better at my craft and stronger – both professionally and personally.

It is crucial to be true to yourself. It sounds cliche, I know. But it is so easy to fall into an attempt to mirror another’s success. Is ‘funny’ getting attention, page views and partnerships? Then be FUNNY. Is Pinterest an incredible traffic driver for people you know? MASTER PINTEREST. Is success buried in short posts? In long form memoirs? In video or podcasts? In webinars and affiliate marketing?

Yes….for all of the above, but that doesn’t necessarily make any of those paths are the right one for you.

Which is why I have but three pieces of advice:

  • Continue to be open to learning. Every week. Every day.
  • Surround yourself by people who make you better, smarter, stronger and supported.
  • And most importantly: Show Up.

I have found the people I most admire in both the social and digital sphere and those in lifestyle and parenting (a bridge I regularly trudge back and forth upon) are those who consider themselves perpetual students – of work, of life, of relationships. They love to learn, try new platforms, experiment with the work they adore. They recognize they make mistakes, they learn by ‘doing’ and always pick up the pieces to start over.

I can’t stress enough the importance of having a tribe of people who will give you sound advice, support your work and dreams and be honest enough to let you know when you are on the wrong path.

Show up. Meet your people face-to-face. Exchange ideas. Sit in a room surrounded by your peers and soak it all up. I’ve been attending conferences since 2008. Some blogging. Some social media. Some advertising and marketing. Some think-tank-motivational. Yet every one of them has allowed me to improve, has lead to invaluable partnerships and has continued to build this business I enjoy.

So… I’m doing it again…heading to New Media Expo in Las Vegas and April. And I think you should join me.

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Because you will learn from brilliant minds – more than 175 of them will be present teaching, coaching, motivating and reminding you (and me) why we do this work every day.

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Because you will be surrounded by people – in sessions, in the hallway, in the expo, at the events – who not only make you better, but are excited to do so. Just think of how many people you can meet for the first time, or take the opportunity to reconnect.

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Because showing up makes you memorable, it pushes you to engage, to ask questions and seek answers. Because showing up helps you to connect with your next partner, your next client, the next person to be in your tribe.

In only a matter of three days, more than 140 sessions will educate you about content creation, distribution, monetization and so-very-much networking. There are conversations about podcasting and web TV, search marketing and syndication, affiliate programs, direct marketing and ad networks, and SO. MUCH. MORE.

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I’ve attended New Media Expo in the past and have always walked away more prepared to tackle my business.

This year, as an extra bonus NMX will be co-located with NABShow. For those who don’t know, (the journalist and broadcaster in me is giddy) NAB Show is an annual collective for the  National Association of Broadcasters. This event draws some 97,000 attendees. More opportunities to learn and network with bothtraditional and new media content creators. Brilliant.

Excited? Ready to register? Good. Since I have partnered with both #NMX and Type-A Parent to attend, I’ve been given a little fun to share with you: a 20% discount code. Head here and when you register, enter dsmith20. 

And when you do register (or if you are already registered) make sure you let me know you will be there. I’d love to connect.

Essential Oils – What’s the Big Deal?

Hi everyone! Kasey here from All Things Mamma!  This month I’m here to tell you all about essential oils ~

Essential Oils – What’s all the talk about?

If you’ve been anywhere near a blog, Facebook or any other social media site, I’m sure you’ve seen posts about essential oils. Someone is using them to help them relax.  Another person is using them to help fight off colds. And someone else is inviting you to a class. You might have wondered if they are a viable option for your family.  My opinion is YES!

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My experience with essential oils has been nothing but wonderful over the past couple of years.  They’ve completely changed how I live my life. I use them to make Diaper Wipes, as air fresheners and even in my food.  I use them to diffuse in the air, to clean, and I even rub them on my children – YES – I am treating my kids naturally whenever I can. Instead of grabbing over the counter medicine first – I go to my cabinet and grab a bottle of essential oil.

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People are using essential oils to replace everyday items in their homes for cleaning, laundry, headaches, stress and so much more and they’re doing so without harmful chemicals, additives and side effects.

So what exactly is an essential oil? 

Essential oils are natural aromatic compounds found in the seeds, bark, stems, roots, flowers, and other parts of plants. They can be both beautifully and powerfully fragrant. They are very clean, almost crisp, to the touch and are immediately absorbed by the skin. Pure, unadulterated essential oils are translucent and range in color from crystal clear to deep blue.

Essential oils are used for a very wide range of emotional and physical wellness applications. They can be used as a single oil at a time or in complex blends depending on what you need. Essential oils are usually administered by one of three methods: diffused aromatically, applied topically, or taken internally as dietary supplements.

Let’s talk about the differences.

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Certain essential oils, when diffused in the air, can be very stimulating, while others can be calming and soothing. Beyond emotional benefits, diffusing essential oils can purify air of unwanted odors and some airborne pathogens.

Topical 
Application of essential oils can have immediate, localized benefit to the target area of application. They have restorative and calming properties and can be used effectively with massage and beauty therapy. They are also natural disinfectants.

Internal 
Essential oils can also be used as dietary supplements supporting a variety of healthy conditions. Some essential oils have powerful antioxidant properties while others help support healthy inflammatory response in cells. Many essential oils are generally regarded as being safe for dietary use, but some oils should not be taken internally.

If you want to learn more, I suggest doing your research and even checking in with someone you know and trust (or me!) and have them point you in the right direction for information.  Remember – not all essential oils are created equal and you definitely want to use one that is safe for you and your family!  I have a ton of information on my blog, along with my own story on how essential oils have changed our lives.  Head over to check it out or let me know your questions in the comments below!  I’m happy to help!

Introducing Bevy – Collect, Protect and Share Your Digital Photos and Videos

There are a few irrational things that make me panic: Subzero temperatures. Running out of wine. This screen on my iPhone when I’ve taken TOO MANY PICTURES.

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And the thought of losing my photos. All of them.

You see, I’m not a professional photographer by any stretch, but you know what I am?

A moment lover. A memory catcher. A ‘remember-when-er’. And all of the pictures I have allow me to do that. A million years ago when I was little, my mom used to take pictures on a camera, take the film to be developed, wait a WEEK for that to happen and then have the pictures in hand to place in an album, a frame or to pass on to my brother and I.

You see that right there? This is a picture my mom took of me (a hard copy) at my First Communion wearing HER First Communion veil (which, incidentally was ALSO my grandmother’s First Communion veil AND my great grandmother’s wedding veil.)

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Want to know what happened when my small girl wore that SAME veil? (a MOMENT, you would agree, right?)

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I took a picture of her in it.  And left it hidden on my computer. *sigh*

Now…like you, I imagine…I snap hundreds of pictures every week – from the monumental moments, to the mundane…. from First Communions and first days of school to soccer and baseball, to vacations and snow days, from holding hands and helping with homework…I have to confess, I don’t want to forget any of it….but I am morbidly disorganized and these moments are locked away – some on my computer, some on my phone, some on hard drives and until now – they have been close to impossible to access at a moments notice.

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I say ‘until now’ as there is a solution. Today.

I have been lucky enough to have known that this solution was in the works and it launches now.

I am thrilled to introduce you to Bevy. Start here by watching this video and then I’ll explain a little more.

Bevy is both a small in-home device and a mobile app. They work together.

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It is designed to be both a photo and video experience not only for YOU, but for your entire extended family.

Bevy - In Home SystemThe device collects, protects, and stores photos and videos that are taken on any device – phone, tablet, or camera. It can happen the second you capture those moments or later. Any number of family members can access the Bevy device via the free mobile app based on their personal preferences.

Additionally, Bevy isn’t limited to wireless devices. As an in-home device, you can utilize Bevy to store and protect your images and videos from digital cameras, USB flash drives, computers and SD cards.

Since all your content is stored within Bevy, you and your family can readily access all of your content – photos or videos at any time. You can cuddle up and watch on your TV (you KNOW your small people will love to watch themselves on the big screen – as my kids can barely get enough of flipping through pictures on my phone) or simply find the pictures you need from a specific event – as they are all organized for you. With Bevy, all of your moments are safe and secure in one place – either with in-home USB back up  – which is free, or you can utilize a secure cloud back up for an additional fee.

You and I both know that the proliferation of constant moment and memory capturing means we MUST have a way to collect these photos so that we can look back on them – whether that is tomorrow – from our couch or five years from now when we want to honor someone at a special event.

Bevy is the solution: it is a secure, organized collection of all of our beautiful moments right in one place.

Can you tell I’m excited? I cannot wait to hear what you think.

Bevy was developed by Lineage Labs, a Boston-based firm founded in 2014. Are you ready for this? Bevy is available TODAY for preorder at www.bevy.us. Lineage Labs expects to begin shipping to pre-order customers in October 2015. Also of note – Ordering before May 1st will give you $100 off the $349 retail price as well as access to a special Referral Program for anyone who Pre-Orders AND pays a $50 deposit.

Here’s how it works: You will be given a unique referral code to share Bevy with friends and family. This means ANYONE who uses your referral code will receive a discount of $25 as will the additional referrer – this program makes it possible for you to receive your Bevy for nothing but your original $50 deposit. 

Disclosure: Because I believe so deeply in Bevy and the great minds behind it, I have partnered with them as a Consumer Advocate and have been working with them behind the scenes for many months now (and will continue to do so.) However, as you know, all opinions I share are mine and mine alone. (And for reference – I am not part of the Referral Program)

 

3 Simple Winter Braids You Can Do By Yourself

Winter can be a tough season. Yes, snow can be beautiful, but the cold weather can take its toll! It dries out our skin and can leave our hair brittle and breaking. Of course it’s important to take care of your hair to lessen the damage, but besides deep conditioning and using great products, protecting your hair is also a great option. So today I’ve got 3 braids that are perfect for winter.

Why are these braids perfect for winter? Because they keep your hair wrapped up and not blowing around in the elements and yet they are still stylish and beautiful!

3 Perfect Braids for Winter

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Simple Side French Braid – with Braided Bangs

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Let’s start with the simplest one. I know bangs can be a total hassle and they drive me crazy when they’re blowing around in my face. So with this braid, just do a simple French braid to the side and secure with a small elastic. Then do a big side French braid down the back, incorporating the small braid you did as you go. Then you can tug on the pieces a little bit to pull out the braid so it’s fuller and you’re done!

Topsy Turvy “Braid

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Can’t braid? No problem! Remember the ’80’s topsy turvy ponytail? Well, that’s a simple way to get the look of a braid without actually braiding anything at all. Start with a section of hair like you’re going to wear it half up – secure and twist it under. Then gather the next set of hair into a ponytail and twist under again. Continue creating the twist all the way down securing with  small elastics each way. Done!

4 Strand Braid

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This looks so much more complicated than it actually is, promise. It’s like a basket weave. Take your 4 strands and start with the one on top. Put it behind the second strand, then in front of the third strand, then behind the last strand. Start over with the top strand of hair again. Repeat until you get to the bottom! Does that make sense? If not, leave a comment with a question, I’d be happy to help!

So that’s it! Three cute winter braids that will look beautiful while keeping your hair somewhat protected from the elements. They’re also very quick and easy, and I don’t know about you, but I’m always looking for hairstyles on the go.

Have a great day!

Body After Baby: The Postpartum Dance

“Mom, are you having another baby?”

I get asked this question by my nine and seven year olds at least twice a week. Three times if I’m lucky. Our fourth born arrived four months ago, and the children are certain that something is terribly wrong with me since my body hasn’t immediately bounced back.

Tact. We’re working on it in our home. Clearly we need some practice.

Dressing your postpartum body can be quite the chore, particularly in those in-between months when you’ve finally (blissfully) gotten to the place where your regular clothes fit again, but they don’t fit…well. What to do when you want to wear something besides yoga pants, but you don’t want to purchase a whole new wardrobe? I have one word for you:

SPANX.

The modern day girdle, Spanx are a gift for those living in that transition between almost there and finally made it back to pre-baby weight!

It’s true that Spanx make you feel like you might die a slow death of midsection claustrophobia. Just pulling the body-shaping undergarments on is a workout in and of itself, so basically when you wear Spanx you’re killing two birds with one stone: Workout, and completely eradicate the flesh over your abs.

I am now at the point that, with the help of my trusty Spanx, I can fit into almost all of my regular jeans. No, I don’t think I get the full amount of oxygen that I need to fully function while wearing Spanx and jeans, but I do get my kids off my back about having another baby. So I consider it a win.

So for you moms who are trying to get your body back after baby, here are a few tricks (to go along with the Spanx, of course).

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1.) Maxi skirts are your new best friend. Paired with a cute t-shirt, or a tank top and jean jacket, the maxi skirt masks the problem areas while showing off the fact that you have a waist again! Way to go, new mom!

2.) Maternity pants can still be your friend, too. Let’s face it – the elastic waistband is ridiculously comfortable, and with the right shirt no one will ever know you’re still in maternity pants unless you tell them.

Don’t tell them!

3.) Scarves and lots of them. It’s winter time so I can write that now. It’s harder to pull off a cute scarf in summer, but not impossible. You’re a new mom, for heaven’s sake! You can wear what you want!

Scarves are effective for two reasons: First, they help mask the midsection, thereby saving you from the remarks of young children and older men who seemed to have lost their filters (I’ve been asked twice by older gentlemen in the grocery store when my baby is due). Second, scarves are a safer accessory than necklaces when holding baby, who will grab hold of anything around your neck and pull with all her superhuman baby strength until she cuts off the blood supply to your brain.

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4.) Cute shoes. You just can’t go wrong with a pair of cute shoes. They beg people to stare at them. Am I right?!

5.) Finally, confidence. Listen, the fact is this: Whether you had a baby a month ago or a decade, you have to remember that you grew a human inside your body! You carried life, and you brought it into this world. What you did, Mom, was nothing short of miraculous, and the after effects of that miracle may mean you hold on to a few extra pounds for a while…or forever. And that is okay.

Dress your body as it is now and stand proud and confident in the sacrifice you made to bring life into this world. Don’t worry about your jeans fitting perfectly, because I can guarantee the baby that nuzzles against your neck doesn’t care.

And your older kids will learn tact. Someday, they will figure out it’s best to not say anything at all. For the time being, you will just have to offer them grace. And maybe wear your Spanx.

Romantic Valentine’s Day Makeup

Have a special date with your significant other this Valentine’s Day? If you’ve already got your outfit picked out, then it’s time to think makeup! For special dates with my hubby, I love following this easy routine. It’s all about soft pinks, blushes, and earthy tones– perfect for a romantic evening!

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1. Start with your favorite foundation, BB Cream/CC Cream, tinted moisturizer, etc. For this look, I used Make Up For Ever’s HD Foundation, which I love for fuller coverage. It always applies flawlessly! But if you favor lighter coverage, Bare Minerals Matte Foundation is another favorite of mine!

2. Don’t forget to conceal any dark circle or blemishes! Need tips for conquering tired eyes? Be sure to check out my previous post detailing my favorite concealers!

3. Add a peach or rosy blush to the apples of your cheeks. I chose a soft dusty rose (Bare Minerals Blush in Morning) that’s a pretty, natural shade and universally flattering on all skin tones. (It may look goofy, but I always make the pucker face to get perfect placement on my cheekbones!)

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4. Apply a soft pink eyeshadow to the entire lid. Then apply a light brown to the outer corners of your lid, blending over to about the mid-point of your eye. Also add a little of the brown into your crease. Blend all over to make sure there are no harsh lines and the pink gradually fades into the brown shadow. (I used Lorac’s Pro Palette shades Light Pink and Sable)

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5. Line your eyes as close as possible to the lash line to add definition to your pretty blues, browns or greens! To get the cleanest, thinnest line possible, I always use a liquid liner. (My current fave is from The Balm.) However if you’re not a fan of working with liquids, then gels liners are an excellent option! They are a bit more precise and pigmented than pencils. Tarte makes my favorite gel!

6. Apply black mascara. If you want a slightly more dramatic lash, I like using Lancome’s CILS Booster XL prior to applying mascara. It primes and conditions the lashes, creating even longer looking lashes. For this look, I used Bobbi Brown’s Smokey Eye Mascara.

7. Add a lip! I went with a color just a shade or two darker than my natural lip and stayed with an earthy tone. valentines days makeup tutorial

Are you ready to see the final product?

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Five Ways to Wear Booties

Have you jumped on the bootie bandwagon? I know I have. They’re such a versatile shoe that can really be worn year round! Here are the top five ways I rock ‘em.

1. With cuffed jeans.

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Depending on the length of your jeans, wearing booties with denim can be trickier than it sounds. I’ve found that cuffing skinny or straight legs works great!

2. With leggings.

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Now that I’m a mom, leggings are pretty much my favorite thing ever. Luckily, they look fab when paired with booties and a long tunic or sweater. Hello, chic mom-on-the-go!

3.  With a skirt/dress.

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Booties are a great substitute for regular ole boots or even heels! The next time you throw on a casual skirt or dress, give it a try! The often- thicker heel of your booties will be a welcome change from pumps!

4. With tights and a skirt/dress.

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Something about adding tights with booties instantly dresses up the look. If you want to wear your booties to the office, this is definitely the way to go!

5. With shorts.

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See, I told you that booties were versatile for all seasons! ;)

Which look is your favorite?

The Ultimate WiFi Survival Guide: Stay Safe & Connected #NoWiFi

I’m staring out my window: sunshine, NO snow and a high predicted of 55. This is highly unusual for January. I am beyond relieved. We all know how much I dislike the cold and snow, yes? But, the truth is….I’ve had my eyes firmly fixated on the East for days now….first watching the predictions of ‘Snowmageddon 2015′ and then seeing the less-than-predicted (thank goodness) fall in New York City, but also watching my friends in Boston dig out from underneath Juno’s 30+ inches of snow.

But I can also see this Sunday’s prediction’s of the white stuff here. I may be excited we have been a snow-less January, but I also KNOW we are far from being out of the Winter Zone. February and March have been brutal in the past, so I’m not assuming we’ve escaped unscathed.

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For me, this time of year isn’t simply about staring longingly at my favorite pictures of the Caribbean (and trust me – I do PLENTY of that), about bundling up with coats, gloves, scarves and warm boots, about avoiding the icy roads (I beg my husband to drive when the conditions are even vaguely unfortunate as my California blood pressure can’t take it) but about being prepared for Mother Nature to shut us down when it comes to power. Yes, that means no heat and electricity, but it also means #NoWifi or connection to the world the way we are used to connecting right now. While that may not seem like a ‘big deal’ on the surface….many of us no longer use landlines and rely on our cell phones and wifi not only for work, but to stay connected to family and friends for day to day activities – never mind the need to reach out in the event of an emergency.

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For the past few months, I’ve been happy to join some brilliant friends in this online space as we’ve partnered with APC  by Schneider Electric to feature their APC Back UPS Connect and now to produce and share with you the Ultimate WiFi Survival Guide. It is FULL of the tips and advice you need to stay safe and connected during storms (hello, Juno! or good heavens….the tornados that typically blanket the Midwest in the Spring) and outages.

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The good news is – the guide is easy to read and makes it possible for you to easily be prepared should you find yourself in a #NoWiFi situation anytime in the future. I’m thrilled I was able to share my thoughts and know what you see from my friends will also be helpful.

Click below to take a look (and be sure to let me know what you think!)

DISCLOSURE: I AM HAPPY TO HAVE PARTNERED WITH SCHNEIDER ELECTRIC TO SHARE THIS WITH YOU, THOUGH, AS ALWAYS ALL THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS ARE MINE AND MINE ALONE. 

 

Stop Texting and Driving: It Can Wait

Delaney was probably 18 months old when she started to follow me around, arms up, saying ‘hold you….Mommy, hold you?’ It took me a moment, but I realized she was imitating me…repeating what she had heard me say to her over and over again, ‘Do you want Mommy to hold you?’

After that, it was noticing the way Cooper holds his fork and stops to hold the door open for people…and the way Delaney buries her nose in a book and keeps her iPod close by for constant checking. It’s the way they play ball in the house and raise their voices when they are angry.

Small people don’t simply do as you say, they do as you do.

They pay attention, they pick up your habits, both good and bad. (the ball in the house? Shockingly, that’s my husband.)

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And the older they get, the more crucial it is that your habits are ones that don’t put your kids in any danger. Like texting and driving. According to stats compiled by Texting And Driving Safety, the minimal amount of time eyes are taken off the road to read a text is 5 seconds – if you are driving 55 mph – that is equal to the length of a football field with NO EYES ON THE ROAD. Now consider this – 48% of young adults have been in a car with someone who was texting and driving.** Do you want your child to be in the car with someone who drives blind for the length of a football field? Do you want to be that driver?

Because I feel so strongly about it, I’ve partnered with AT&T to tell you about their new It Can Wait campaign. The goal of the campaign and the accompanying app, DriveMode is to convince people like you and me to stop texting while we drive and stay focused on the road.

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DriveMode is free on both iOs and Android and it works seamlessly to silence incoming messages. You can set it up to turn on automatically when you drive (hitting 15mph or higher and turns off shortly after you stop) or you can turn it on manually.

AT&T customers can also customize an auto-reply that lets senders know you are driving and will get back to them soon.

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Additionally, you can use #X as the new ‘shorthand’ before you get behind the wheel to let your friends and family know you’re pausing your conversations and you’ll be offline while you are driving. Demi Lovato shows how she’s using it in this quick video. Parents of young drivers can set up the app to text them if their teen turns it off.

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The alternative? I can lend you my small dude. Coop would be happy to ride in your back seat and remind you to keep your hands off your phone while your driving. And honestly – he’s right – because he and his sister?

They are worth it.

In case you need some extra convincing… this video is a painful, but honest reminder of the toll text messaging has been taking on families…especially those of young adults as texting and driving is now, according to the Cohen Children’s Medical Center, the leading cause of death among teenagers – having surpassed drinking and driving. As of 2013, there were more than 3-thousand teens dying each year. And more than 50% of teens admit to texting while driving.** Maybe have them take a look at the reality of the loss…. this video or this one might be a place to start.

Then download DriveMode. And finally, join the nearly 6 million people who have already taken the pledge to STOP TEXTING AND DRIVING.

Make sure you are the example they need, that they know they (and you) are worth it and It Can Wait.

Thank you for being her.

**TextingandDrivintSafety.com

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Disclosure: While I was not compensated to share this program with you, I was gifted an iPhone 6 from AT&T to experience the DriveMode app. As always, all thoughts and opinions shared here are mine and mine alone.