Today – A small miracle

delaneymiraclepicOk – maybe Miracle is a strong word….but you know, sometimes a small step forward for your child can feel like you have donned a cape and danced over the buildings of disrespectful and non-listening children?

That’s what happened this morning.

My sweet girl did something she has never done before.

After getting herself dressed….she went downstairs (all by herself mind you – no prodding), packed her lunch, packed her backpack and put on her socks and shoes.

I know you might be thinking – ‘big flippin’ deal, Danielle’. But it is.  It is huge.  It is monumental.

She came back upstairs and said, “Mommy, I have something to tell you…I’m all packed and ready for school.  All I have left to do it put on my coat.”

I paused.

This caliber of news deserves a pause, I tell you.

I glanced down and tilted my head – trying to see if she looked as different as she suddenly felt to me.  Except for the grin splitting her little face?  Nope – same Delaney.

She was so proud.  I was so proud.

And I promise you, she is going to know how proud I am – every single minute I am with her today.

This is a child who normally needs to be told 6-7 times, “please put your shoes on.”  And she has NEVER, I repeat, NEVER packed her own lunch and backpack – at least without tremendous prompting.

It is only Monday, and yet:

Mommy – 1, World – 0.

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  • http://bernthis.com jessica

    r u kidding me? that is HUGE! My daughter still has to be told a thousand times to do what I need her to do. Mazel tov

  • Danielle

    I love you for celebrating with me. It has felt like a small celebration all damn day. We’ll see if it lasts :)

  • http://www.lilkidthings.com Andrea

    That’s awesome! My son is only 13 months but each time he shows his independence I am beaming! Last night he finished dinner and looked to his room and said Night night…blanket? Sweet sweet kiddos. Congrats on your Monday victory!

  • http://www.skindeepblog.com Jackie Gaudio

    What a great feeling it is when you experience them turning a page. A part of her will always remember the pride and joy she felt from you today! Oh, and I think I would drop over if my son made his own lunch : ) Congratulations!

  • Danielle

    Jackie – thank you! You made me giggle – I DID almost drop over. Backpack is one thing, but lunch???

  • Danielle

    Andrea – and congrats on yours too! Isn’t it amazing to witness them grow? :)

  • http://chandlerpoppa.blogspot.com Jim

    I am just beginning to understand the joy that you must be feeling at this moment. My beautiful Katie will be five in one week and I still get her dressed in the morning. I know I’m an amateur, but we play will getting her dressed and it makes it a great morning. But we have another on the way and she is going to need to be more self sufficient. I love your blog.

  • Danielle

    Jim – thank you so much. Delaney is my oldest and has been slower to do things on her own (I’m certain because I have been happy to do them for her ) but it is beautiful to see the progress :) (and to avoid telling her the same thing again and again!) Congrats on your new one!

  • http://jenmen.com Jennifer

    Wow! Can my son come and rub her head or something, and see if her powers are transferable?? :-)

  • Danielle

    Jen – yes – bring him on over :) (Keep in mind, I have yet to see if these powers are fully entrenched or were merely a fleeting tease….) :)

  • Nicole ; )

    YAY Delaney! The big thing is THAT SHE DID IT RIGHT!

  • http://kweenmama.wordpress.com/ Kweenmama

    Congrats to Delaney on taking another step towards independence! You should be one proud Mama! Now…did you happen to check the lunch to see exactly WHAT she packed? ;-)

  • Lauralee Hensley

    One small step in the life of Delaney, one huge step in the world of responsibility. You have
    every right to be proud and so does she.